Are you trying to stick with a budget but finding that there are unexpected expenses creeping up every month? Check out this list for 20 Things You May Be Forgetting to Put in Your Budget.
How We Use Crystal’s Pizza Dough Recipe to Make Easy Frozen Pizza
How We Use Crystal’s Pizza Dough Recipe to Make Easy Frozen Pizza

Guest post from Katy of Finding Home.
To say our family loves pizza might be an understatement. If you ask my husband what he wants to eat, the answer will always be steak, tacos, or pizza.
Our favorite homemade pizza crust is this freezer-friendly one that Crystal shared, because we can get everything ready ahead of time.
The original recipe is set up to make two crusts, which you can freeze as a ball of dough. That works fine, except sometimes we decide we want to eat a pizza around dinner time (or for a late night snack), and we don’t have four hours for the crust to thaw on the counter. So I started experimenting.
First, I wanted to see if we could roll the crusts out ahead of time, and freeze them flat in the freezer.
Yes, it works! Here’s how I do it!
- Line a jelly roll pan or circular pan (the same one you’ll later use to bake the pizzas) with parchment paper
- Flatten the dough to the shape of the pan
- Put the whole thing in the freezer (I wouldn’t recommend freezing a pizza stone, so if you use one of those, find something else flat to freeze your crust on)
- Once the crust is frozen, remove the pan, and wrap the crust with saran wrap.
- To bake, simply unwrap and flip the crust onto the pan.
How I bake it as a frozen crust.
If you’re putting the pizza in the oven right out of the freezer (after topping it with all of your yummy favorites), bake at 425°F for 18 minutes. This allows the pizza dough to come to the right temperature without heating up too quickly. Otherwise you’ll end up with a burnt bottom and a doughy middle!

How I make it a thin crust.
If you’re looking for a thinner crust, you can split Crystal’s recipe into three crusts. The method is the same, but the baking times change slightly. To bake right away right after you mix the dough, bake at 450°F for 10-12 minutes. To bake right away from frozen, bake at 425°F for 15 minutes.
These baking times and temperatures are based on my oven, which cooks a little bit hotter than the temperature it says. You might need to adjust a bit according to your oven, but once you figure it out, you’re all set for easy frozen pizzas!

I like to freeze a few of these crusts, a batch of homemade pizza sauce (which makes enough for 3 pizzas), and a few containers of toppings. With all that done ahead of time, all I have to do is pull out a crust, defrost the sauce and toppings in the microwave, and top with shredded cheese. The whole process takes about 5 minutes — perfect for a busy weeknight dinner!
Katy is a pastor’s wife in Oregon. You can find her blogging about mostly gluten free food, homeschooling, and parenting at Finding Home.
A Day In My Life: Not as productive as I’d hoped, but sometimes that’s just how life is, right?
A Day In My Life: Not as productive as I’d hoped, but sometimes that’s just how life is, right?
So yesterday wasn’t as productive as I was hoping.
It started out well, though…
Since I’ve been sick this weekend, I’ve had trouble sleeping, so I woke up around 4 a.m. and just got up and stayed up.
I started the Diffuser going with OnGuard. Took my vitamins. Made some coffee. And sat down to read my Bible and catch up on emails and blogging work.
I got a lot of work done in those few hours before the rest of the family woke up. When the kids got up, I made sausage, berries, and fried eggs for breakfast and then we sat down to eat and do our morning school.
Once we were finished, I cleaned up the kitchen while the kids got ready, did their morning chores, and then got started in on their independent school.
I had planned to take a shower and get some more housework done, but around this time, I started to really feel icky again. So Jesse took over and I went back to bed (he’s been out of town more than he’s been home recently, so I was very grateful that I could actually go back to bed today!)
He washed the girls hair and then they came in to have me fix it. Should I confess that I didn’t even get out of bed to fix their hair? I just propped up the pillows and they sat on the edge of the bed while I fixed it.
And then he fed the kids and took them out to ice skating lessons, swimming lessons, and baseball practice while I tried to get some work done while resting. I had trouble focusing, but I ended up getting most of my list done.
After my list was mostly finished, I got up and made myself some Throat Coat tea, switched the laundry from the washer to the dryer, and then I folded some laundry, and worked on my talks/slides for the Arlington Homeschool Conference.
Jesse and the kids arrived home and we ate dinner, cleaned up the house, and then I headed to bed for an early bedtime.
I was so grateful to wake up feeling somewhat better today — and I finally had the energy to tackle Silas and Kathrynne’s clothes.

Kathrynne helped me go through her clothes and I was shocked how many clothes she actually has since she re-wears the same things over and over again.

And I went through Silas’ clothes — with a little input from him, too.


I organized both of their drawers in a similar way as Kaitlynn’s and gave them strict instructions that they are to keep them this way and make sure to fold and put away laundry in this order to simplify things.
It feels so good to have pared down some of their clothes — especially since I haven’t done this since we moved here a year ago!
How was YOUR day yesterday? Did you get any cleaning or organizing done? Is everyone well at your house? I hope so!
My 10 Goals For This Week (yes, I’m finally back to weekly goal-setting again!)
My 10 Goals For This Week (yes, I’m finally back to weekly goal-setting again!)

So, I told you that April was a hard month — and that was also reflected in the fact that I didn’t post many weekly goals. In all honesty, I was just in survival mode for a few weeks and had to focus on necessities.
There are seasons of life when it’s like that and so long as it’s just a short season and not a lifestyle, sometimes you just have to power through, pray for grace and strength, and stick to the basics.
Gratefully, most of the hard and stretching things that we were dealing with all at once have subsided and things are back to more of a quiet rhythm here again… and I am so very grateful!
As a result, I’m ready to jump back into goal-setting again!
This week’s goals:
Marriage/Mothering/Homemaking Goals
1. Take Silas on a special one-on-one outing for his birthday.
2. Write a love note to Jesse.
3. Go through Kathrynne and Silas’ clothes & get rid of what no longer fits them.
Personal Goals
4. Exercise at least 3 times.
5. Finish reading at least one book.
6. Listen to at least two inspiring audios/podcasts while working/driving.
Local Ministry/Hospitality/Friendship Goals
7. Get caught up on thank you note writing.
8. Finish reading a friend’s manuscript & writing an endorsement for it.
Business Goals
9. Outline/write 3 substantive blog posts for next week.
10. Finish tweaking my presentations/slides for the Arlington Homeschool Conference this weekend.
What are your goals for this week? I’d love to have you share your progress on last week’s goals and your goals for this coming week in the comments. Of, if you’ve blogged about it, leave your direct link below. Let’s cheer each other on to live purposeful and productive lives! You can download a free customizable weekly goal-planning sheet here.
How Our Family of 9 Lives in 1200 Square Feet

Guest post from Julie
We moved into our current house eight years ago when we had three children: a 4-year-old, a 2 year-old, and a 7-month-old. It was the first home we had ever purchased and seemed like the perfect place to start!
Little did we know that in the next eight years, we would add four more children (with one more on the way) and continue to make our small space work.
Below, I’ve included photos and descriptions of the different rooms in our house. The measurements don’t add up to exactly 1200 sq. ft. but I did not include closet space in the room measurements. Also, we have been blessed with a walk-in pantry (not pictured below) that gives us more storage since our kitchen cabinet space is so small. I think this would account for the missing square footage.
I hope you enjoy the tour!

The photo above is what you see of our living room when you walk in the front door. The majority of our time is spent here or in the dining room/kitchen.
The photo below is the other side of the living room. That’s my nursing rocker and my husband’s recliner. We have a full-size electric keyboard/piano for our children’s lessons. We store blankets in the bottom of the old wash stand turned side table and my magazines in the drawer.

Below is the view from the recliner. The built-in shelves house photo albums, audio CDs, and books. The ottomans provide extra seating and store DVDs. The chest stores more blankets and our VCR/DVD combo player that we use occasionally.

Here is the view of the kitchen/dining room from the living room doorway. This is the most used space in the house (besides the bathroom!)

I love that it is an open space. It really makes our house seem larger.
The basement door leads to our small, unfinished basement. It is only under the dining room/kitchen area and is mainly used to store containers of clothing. Our washer and dryer are down there, too.
Below is a view of the dining room from the kitchen looking into the living room and at the front door. Two of the bedrooms are off the dining room.
The door straight ahead to the left is the Master Bedroom. You can barely see the doorway on the far left — that is the girls’ room. The hallway is to the right.

The hallway houses our kids’ bookshelf and game closet. To the right is the boys’ room and to the left is the bathroom.

Back in the dining room, the blueish cabinet (see below) is “homeschool central”. I turned our old china cabinet into a central place to store all our homeschool needs. I’m still in the process of refinishing it.

Underneath there are baskets for preschool puzzles and regular puzzles, as well as our floor puzzles and toddler activities. Behind the door on the left are shoe-box-sized containers for crafts, extra school supplies, paper crafts, etc.
There are also drawers for toddler activities like lacing cards, play-doh, paints, etc. The door on the right houses the kids’ binders and individual books/workbooks. The top has my teacher binders and the common books we use for Science, History, Bible, etc. The top left has flash cards, manipulatives, etc.
The photo below is my kitchen.

The refrigerator is on the right and is basically unseen. We added the counter on the left wall after we moved in because there is very limited counter space.
When we have company, we serve the food from this counter buffet-style. It tends to be a clutter-trap. Right now it is housing our seedling lamp.
The white cabinet under the “high counter” (as we call it) contains all the kids’ dishes. The doorway on the right leads to the mudroom/office and walk-in pantry (which are not pictured in this post).
The rest of our home’s space is taken up by three bedrooms and ONE bathroom!
Yes, we only have this one bathroom, but it does have two vanities and abundant cabinetry.


The photo above shows the view from the other wall of the bathroom. You can see the tall cabinet between the vanities. It stores bed linens, towels/washcloths, some toiletries, and cleaning supplies.
The photo below shows our small closet behind the bathroom door. We keep extra diapers/wipes, toiletries, etc in here.

Our 4 oldest boys share one room, pictured below.

My husband built the triple bunk system in phases, as needed. It started as the loft with a full size bed underneath, but after our last son was born two years ago he added the two additional beds.
Our 3-year-old sleeps in the “cubby” under bed #3. He loves to drape a blanket over the opening and make it his fort. 🙂

All four older boys share one closet, and also this one chest of drawers. They each have one drawer, except the 3-year-old gets the top two small drawers. The plastic 3-drawer system on the floor is for the littlest boy.
The closet holds their hang-up clothes and stores dress-up clothes (knight armor, policeman and spy wear, astronaut clothing). It also has shelves to hold roller blades, football card binders, and less used items.
Most of the toys the littler guys use are stored in the cubby pictured below. The small 3-drawer system on the top right is for the three oldest boys. They each get a drawer to store whatever their heart desires.

The girls are almost 13 and 6, so it can be difficult to make this a good space for both of them considering the age span and different interests.

At the foot of the bunk bed is a chest of drawers that the girls share. Dress-up things are in the storage chest under the windows. They have under-bed storage containers for play food, 18” dolls/clothes, and paper dolls.

The baby crib has been in the girls’ room since we moved in. They don’t mind sharing their space with the littlest member of the family, no matter the gender. 🙂
To the left is their closet. It houses the play kitchen, Loving Family doll house, assorted craft items (knitting, beads, fabric, etc), lesser used items, and hang-up clothing.
My oldest daughter also has her own bookshelf behind the door to house her own books, calligraphy items, etc. She loves to draw and write.

This is our bedroom. It is kind of a clutter spot, but when I don’t know where to put something it comes in here!
Our elliptical is in our room and is used off and on. The dresser holds my clothing and stuff and my husband’s clothes are on a custom floor-to-ceiling shelving unit in the closet.
We have a step-in closet (see below) and it can get quite cluttered at times.
The baby takes naps in the pack ‘n play in our room so that the other kids can have access to their rooms throughout the day. Since the baby sleeps in here twice a day, I have a hard time getting in here to declutter or clean on a regular basis. When the new baby is born in August, she will sleep in our room full-time.

So that’s the full tour!
Recently, we were gifted seven acres of property not far from our current home. This dear friend of ours wanted to bless us with a place to build a home that would give our growing family more room. We are currently praying and planning on beginning construction in spring of 2016!
Our future house plans are not extremely large, but they are not small either. Our current plan is to build a 2-story home with a main floor of approximately 1200 sq. ft. (this would double our living space!)
To be honest, we are all kind of looking forward to having more space! We go through seasons, and we kind of want this small house living to be a season the Lord is bringing us out of. However, we will continue to pray and be obedient to whatever He wants us to do.
Julie is the wife of one great man and mother to seven (soon to be 8) growing and active children, ages 20 months to 13 years. She enjoys DIY projects, conversations with friends, gardening, and coffee. Life is busy and she is learning to slow down and enjoy the little things. She has learned to keep life simple in order to save money and live in the small space that God has blessed her and her family with.
3 Reasons I Use Coupons

Guest post from Kelly of Kelly Cox At Home
My husband and I have lived on a budget ever since we got married. I didn’t find it that difficult to stick to our written plan except for one area: our grocery budget. While doable, I found it tough to only stick to our allotted $400 a month grocery money for just 2 people!
One day, we decided to look into couponing to see if perhaps we could stretch our grocery money.
Quickly, I learned that couponing has its own language! I found myself getting pretty frustrated because I didn’t understand what RP, SS and PG meant! You see, PG is how I abbreviate “Praise God” in texts or email, and I completely realized that was not the case on coupon sites!
My husband was very helpful when I was over-complicating things. He researched and figured out the coupon lingo so to speak. My eyes were opened and we chose one site to begin to follow. I’m so thankful that he helped me because I am completely hooked on saving money with coupons.
We began to cut coupons from the newspaper and print them offline. I figured out what it meant to stockpile and realized that it didn’t necessarily mean keeping 38 jars of peanut butter on hand!
It only took 2-3 months and we cut our grocery budget in HALF. Wow, we were thrilled!
Here are 3 of the many reasons why I coupon…
1. Coupons save us $200 each month.
We cut our grocery budget in half and now save extra money each month. It took a while to get used to sales cycles, coupons, and how to pair them at their rock bottom price, but that work was definitely worth the extra $200 each month!
Also, not only do we save money, but we actually have much more food (and options!) in our fridge, pantry and freezer.
2. Coupons allow us to give more.
I’ve found that we are able to give more to food pantries, our church, and even to family and friends! It is so much easier to share several bags of food to those in need because the couponing allows me to do it less expensively and offers me the flexibility to give more freely.
Also, my sisters-in-law occasionally get “coupon presents” from me and they enjoy these silly gifts! I will give them each a little bag of toiletry products, food products, seasonings or about anything that I got for free or super cheap from couponing. They love it!
3. Coupons offer an opportunity to try new brands and products.
Couponing has enabled me to try so many new products because they were so cheap (or free!) I’ve enjoyed new brands and have even replaced some of my old products with new ones.
Couponing has broadened my horizons with food, toiletries, makeup, and cleaning products. I love to try new things, especially when they are a cheaper price or even free!
I’m amazed at what couponing has done for our family’s budget. Also, I’m pleased that it has allowed us to give more. I’d suggest couponing for those who want to save money, bless others, and broaden their horizons!
Kelly is a Christ follower, blessed wife, and a lover of all things home. She blogs over at Kelly Cox At Home about her journey at home and passion for debt-free living. She hopes to encourage others in that goal, while sharing tips on how to manage and enjoy all things that make up HOME!
My 12 Goals for 2015 + the Progress I Made in April

To be honest, April was a really hard month around here. There were a number of very unexpected, stressful things that happened that stretched Jesse and me far beyond what we felt capable of. It was exhausting, draining, and all around discouraging.
There were some bright spots in the month, though…
Like our trip to Maine with all of my extended family.
And getting our air conditioner fixed — finally! {It only took 3 repair visits and 3 weeks to get it taken care of!}
And getting all caught up on the laundry — and actually staying caught up (going on two and a half weeks and counting!!)
The past week, I’m incredibly grateful that things have started to really look up. We’ve seen some really discouraging situations completely turned around, we’ve experienced some huge answers to prayer, and there’s just been a boatload of encouraging things happening. I’m so grateful, because I was oh-so-ready for some good news! 🙂
My 12 Goals for 2015
Marriage
- Read 1 book per month on marriage.
- Read in January: 52 Ways to Wow Your Husband
- Read in February: From This Day Forward
- Read in March: For Married Women Only
- Read in April: 50 Frugal Dates
- Write at least 1 love note to Jesse each week.
- Done in January
- Done in February
- Done in March
- Done in April
Motherhood
- Read at least 1 book aloud to the kids per month.
- Read in January: James the the Giant Peach
- Read in February: The Imagination Station Book 15, The Cricket in Times Square
- Read in March: The Imagination Station Book 16, Thoughts to Make Your Heart Sing
- Read in April: Caleb’s Story
- Write 1 love note to each child every month.
- Done in January.
- Done in February.
- Done in March.
- Done in April.
Myself
- Complete all She Reads Truth 2015 Bible Studies + memory work.
- Done in January — I absolutely loved the John study.
- Done in February — I really enjoyed the Esther study.
- Done in March — I’m almost finished with the Lent study — so, so good!
- Done in April — I’m loving the Timothy study!
- Read 1 fiction book per month.
- Read in January: What Alice Forgot
- Read in February: The Cricket in Times Square (read aloud to the kids)
- Read in March: Lizzy & Jane
- Read in April: Dear Mr. Knightley
MoneySavingMom.com
Hire a local personal assistant.
- Done! And I’m so grateful! My new assistant, Ashley, is amazing!
- Launch 2 courses (we’re planning one for spring and one for fall — stay tuned!)
- In April, we finalized all of the course materials and post-production. We’re now getting the finishing touches done, setting up the site for this product, and sending it out to a handful of folks to review. The launch is set for the first week of June. Look for more details soon!
- Launch our new product line (slated to soft launch in the summer).
- Release my third book (slated to come out November 2015).
- We finally landed on a cover design that we all love. We’re in the middle of gearing up for marketing and publicity. Can’t wait to tell you more about this book in the coming months!
Money
Increase last year’s overall giving totals by 10% in 2015.
- Part of my going to South Africa was to investigate the possibility of our family personally supporting the work of Take Action. After coming home, we both felt this was the direction we were supposed to take and our partnership with them will allow us to meet this goal. We’re so thrilled with what God is doing there in South Africa and, for those who have joined us in this through the #TenDollarTribe.
- Finish funding our Rental House #3 Savings Account.
- Yay! We moved from 44% to 60% — thanks in huge part to ending up not having to pay as much in taxes as we thought we might have to (yay for deductions!) and being able to then put that tax savings money we’d set aside as a precaution into our rental house savings instead. So excited to see a lot of significant traction here this month!
How are you doing on YOUR goals for 2015?
If you set goals for this year, I’d love to hear how you are doing on them! Leave a comment telling us about your progress on them or leave the link over to your blog post about them. Here’s to a year of living with purpose, intentional, impact, and meaning!
My Monday Morning Plan + Today’s Cleaning Project

Good morning! I hope your day is off to a great start!
Jesse was gone on a business trip Thursday through Saturday morning and I got sick with what my kids had last week (congestion/fevers, etc.) right after he left. So, needless to say, I was very ready for him to walk in the door on Saturday morning!
I spent the weekend recuperating — mostly just resting, reading, writing, and watching a few movies. After many weeks of busyness, it was wonderful, despite the fact that I didn’t feel well.
I’m feeling quite a bit better today, but I’m planning to still take it pretty easy so that I’m fully recovered for Silas’s birthday and speaking at the Arlington Homeschool Conference later this week.
I only ended up getting to go through Kaitlynn’s clothes a few weeks ago, so today I’m tackling Silas and Kathrynne’s clothes — getting rid of things that no longer fit, organizing, and making sure they have plenty of clothes for Spring/Summer.
Here’s my plan for this morning:
- Bible reading/journaling
- Blogging/business work
- Run/shower/dressed for the day I want to have
- Pick up my room/make my bed
- Start a load of laundry
- Breakfast
- Morning Time
- School with Silas
- Get kids started on chores/independent work/Daily Lists
- Quick pick up of the house/kitchen cleaned up
- Go through the Kathrynne and Silas’ clothes
- Write thank you note/notes to kids/Mother’s Day card
- Fold & put away all laundry
This evening (hopefully!), I’ll share a post about how our day went and give you an update (with pictures) on my progress on our house and the kid’s clothes.
Need some motivation? Check out my post on 10 Ways to Make Cleaning More Fun.
Want to join me? Leave a comment to let us know you’re participating! If you have time, tell us what your morning plan is, too.
Why We’ve Got to Stop Comparing Ourselves to Kate Middleton

You there. Sitting in your yoga pants with the mom hair look. I have something I want to whisper in your ear today.
You may have seen the Royal Baby Announcements and festivities unfold.
You may have seen the pictures of Duchess Kate headed home from the hospital looking stunningly gorgeous just 12 hours after giving birth.
And you might be feeling just a little bit like you don’t measure up.
Like you’re a loser mom.
Like you’re dropping balls all over the place.
Like you need to lose 10 pounds, find a better makeup routine, figure out a better hairstyle, buy a new wardrobe…
You may be overwhelmed by your to-do list. You may be frustrated that you can’t get your act together more. That you can’t have a cleaner house. That you aren’t more organized. That you ate that extra cookie last night. That you got irritated at your child, yet again, this morning.
Here’s the thing: Kate Middleton is beautiful. She’s amazing. She’s graciously handled all sorts of pressure and scrutiny. She’s the epitome of poise. And I’ve never seen her look anything but stunning.
So the pictures of her looking incredible just hours after giving birth didn’t surprise me. And for a split second, I started to wonder what my problem was that I looked like I’d been run over by a train for at least a few days after giving birth to my kids.
Well, and that some days — even years after giving birth — I look like I’ve been run over by a train. {Here’s some picture proof, if you missed my post yesterday.}
But then I quickly reminded myself: Kate has a whole team of people who help her get ready for big photo-ops like this. If you and I had a hairstylist, a makeup artist, and a dress designer get us ready for something like this, we’d probably look amazing, too!
That’s why we can’t compare ourselves to Kate. Our reality is completely different than her reality.
Comparison is the thief of joy. Always.
So I want to whisper this in your ear today, moms: You are enough.
You don’t need to be thinner or more organized or more fit or have a nicer wardrobe or get a better handle on your finances or find a new makeup routine or get your hair styled differently in order to finally be enough.
Yes, it’s fantastic if you want to work on areas in your life that you could improve in — we all have those areas where we struggle or are weak in (ahem, like me and my laundry issues). But remember that your struggles don’t have to define you. Your failings do not make you a failure.
You are enough… exactly as you are.

P.S. Oh and I thought you might like to see this photo I found of my tired and swollen self at 40 weeks pregnant with Silas. It’s a far cry from gorgeous pregnant Kate — and that’s okay! 🙂
How We Do Birthdays on a Bare Bones Budget

Guest post from Sally of SallyLynnHall.com
Some years birthdays are big ol’ parties around our house — homemade elaborate cakes, lots of guests, games, activities, homemade decorations, and oh the food!
Mostly these are the milestone birthdays — 1, 5, 10 and so on — with a few random shindigs thrown in here and there. We’ve had dinosaur hunts, Elmo themed parties (three, to be exact), video gaming parties, picnic/old school kid games parties, and we’ll probably have countless more themes over the years.
However, the majority of the time we don’t. In fact, my kids have only had two big parties each. That does not mean we don’t celebrate — quite the contrary, actually. We just do it differently: we do it a bit more intimately during the “in between” birthdays.
Of course, I do not think blowout birthdays every year are wrong at all. We just choose not to celebrate that way (with multiple kids it’s hard on our wallet and sanity). Plus, we’ve discovered that simple does not necessarily mean less, it can actually mean so much more!
Let me explain.
Recently, my middle kiddo turned seven. It wasn’t a “milestone” birthday, but every birthday is special and we wanted him to feel that.
We started the festivities with a tradition from my childhood: three days of birthday. For three days — the day before his birthday, the day of, and the day after — he got to choose what we made for dinner, what TV show we watched at night, and usually, various family members would surprise him by doing one or two of his chores for him.
During one of those days we went to Cracker Barrel for our traditional “breakfast with the family”, followed by the birthday boy being able to pick one small toy in the shop for his present. (My husband started this tradition a few years back and it has quickly become a favorite. Even the adults take part on their birthdays! Whatever family members that are off work and are in town usually tag along to these annual breakfasts if they can, but there’s no pressure and it’s just as fun with only our clan.)
There are other little things that sometimes happen as well — we might bake or buy treats to take to our homeschool co-op, or an aunt or grandma might take the birthday kid out for ice cream or some other special outing.
But my favorite thing we do?
A very special bedtime story the night of their birthday. We sit down with pictures and scrapbooks of the kiddo we’re celebrating and while we look through years of firsts — baths, trips, foods, parties, Christmases and haircuts — we talk about the day they were born.
We tell the funny moments, the sweet moments, who was there, what was said and on and on. You would think they would get tired of this, but from the two-year-old to the ten-year-old, they soak it up. They could probably tell their birth stories for me. Well, not the toddler… not yet. And even though they know the answers already, each year it’s the same questions:
“And what did I say to the nurse who said that baby is so cute?”
“You said ‘That’s my new baby brother – go away!’ ”
And they laugh and laugh like it’s the first time they’ve heard it. And me? I bask in those first few moments of their lives with the blissfulness that comes years after the exhaustion of labor. I get to relive the good stuff.
So parents who can’t go big or even medium for each birthday, take heart. It can still be special and your child can feel just as spoiled. Maybe not with fanfare and presents, but instead, with cherished memories and special moments just for them that say, “I’m so glad you were born!”
How do you “do” birthdays?
Sally Hall is a part-time freelance writer, full-time wife, mom, and homeschooler, and a foodie at heart living in Texas. She has written for a series of women’s travel books, homeschooling publications, webzines, international ministries, and is currently finishing her own book! Follow her random musings over on her blog.
OVER-SPENDING EVERY SINGLE MONTH?Grab these FREE Budgeting Sheets!
Click here to download!MySurvey.com: Earn money taking online surveys

MySurvey is a survey company I’ve used and earned money from. You can redeem your points earned for cash or prizes and every 1000 points equals $10. Go here to sign up.
Did you know you can make a nice little side stream of income by taking online surveys? I’ve used some of the sites listed here and it really worked!
5 Questions to Ask When You Feel Like Quitting Your Blog (or anything in life)
5 Questions to Ask When You Feel Like Quitting Your Blog (or anything in life)

Megan emailed in the following:
I read your post about the three most important things to do after you start a blog, and I enjoyed it. I do have a question though that I’ve had for a long time, and was excited to see you were accepting questions! It’s a question I have asked myself every day for the past 6 months: What do you do when you’ve tried everything the experts have said to do, it’s still not working and you don’t have any extra money to invest in any more courses, consultations, or books?
I’ve been blogging for over a year now. I have read your posts on blogging, have read Ruth’s book (How to Blog for Profit without Selling Your Soul), have read other books, have watched the Author’s Summit videos, have read article after article, changed ad placements, guest posted, added better pictures to posts, wrote personal posts, have done TV interviews, have reached out to other bloggers, constantly retweet other bloggers, share content from other bloggers, and have recently re-done my site.
I still struggle to get traffic and “conversions”. I may have 98 views on a coupon deal post, and only 1 coupon print. Honestly, I’m exhausted. I feel like I wasn’t “cut out” to be a blogger…only thing is, I love writing and always have. I’m at my wit’s end. I’ve tried everything I have ever read to do and it just doesn’t work…what am I supposed to do now?
I’m not sure if this is something everyone at some point has struggled with, or not. I just didn’t think I would still be struggling after a year. -Megan
Can I just encourage you, Megan? I think all of us have felt this way at one time or another. Personally, I know that I’ve felt this way multiple times. In fact, I probably feel like quitting every few months.
I well remember my first few years of trying to start a business from home. I would put in hours and hours and hours of work and see very, very little fruit from that effort. Every time it felt like I was starting to gain a little momentum, I’d experience another setback.
It was probably at least two solid years of really pouring, pouring, and pouring myself into this online business and blogging thing before I really started to see true fruit and return on my investment. And then it was another few years before I got to the place where I was earning enough to convince myself it was time to bring on more help so that I could actually have breathing room in my life.

But I didn’t just feel like quitting in the beginning; I still struggle with feeling like quitting now. Just in the past few months, I had some hard, hard things happen business-wise that were so discouraging there was a two-week stretch where I really, really wanted to quit.
I had invested a lot of money and time into multiple things that felt like they fell flat on their face, I was getting a boatload of critical comments and emails, I was discouraged and tired… and I wondered what I was even thinking doing this blogging thing. Should I just quit altogether? Was it even worth it?
I’m not trying to discourage you, I just want to be honest that sometimes, this owning your own business thing isn’t all its cracked up to be. It’s draining. It requires long hours. It involves a lot of setbacks. And it’s easy to get discouraged.
In those moments when I want to throw in the towel, here are 5 questions I ask myself:
1) What is my “why”?
It’s incredibly important to have a why for doing what you’re doing. It can’t be to make money — though it’s totally wonderful if that’s one of the results. It’s got to be deeper than that, though.
What is the reason you started? What is your heartbeat behind what you’re doing? What’s your motivating force and passion?
Is it to help people save money? To inspire people to get their lives in better order? To bring hope? Is it to brighten someone’s day or help someone have more purpose in their life?
Whatever it is, write that why down and refer to it often. Tell it to your closest friends and have them remind you of it when you are feeling like nothing you are doing is working.

2) Am I doing what I love?
So often, we think we know what we love. But until we actually dig in and do it for awhile, it’s hard to really know.
I know many bloggers, including myself, thought we were really passionate about a subject or idea. But after months of writing about it over and over again, we lost that passion and spark.
You might love writing, but make sure that the subject you’re writing on and the way you’re writing about it is fueling you instead of completely draining you.
For me, I like to write different kinds of posts on a wide variety of topics. If I always wrote the same kinds of posts and they were all on a very small, niche topic, I’d burn out quickly.
Giving myself permission in recent years to use this blog to write about whatever I’m inspired to write on has breathed new life into my writing. It’s allowed me to exercise new writing muscles, try new writing styles, and refine my writing voice better.

3) Am I trying to chase someone else’s dream?
This is a hard one, but it’s important. I’ve tried chasing someone else’s dream before and it crashed and burned.
You see, when I had my first blog and was experimenting with monetizing that blog, I met a family who was making good money (something like $1400 per month) just by having ads on their sidebar.
The topic of their site was something I thought I could write on and, since we really needed the money, I spent a lot of time setting up that site and preparing it to launch. I remember calculating in my head all the money I’d be making from it and how it was going to be such a financial blessing to our family.
There was just one problem: the site never gained any momentum at all. Instead, it fell flat on its face. Why? Because I was chasing someone else’s dream.
Make sure that what you’re pursuing is actually your dream, your ideas, and your passions. Don’t run after the latest ideas and suggestions just because they are working well for someone else.

4) Am I seeing any upward momentum?
This is an important question to ask because it’s easy to overlook the good that’s happening and focus solely on the discouraging things… the lack of traffic, the drop in Facebook Likes, the fact that no one is retweeting our posts.
Are there good things happening, too, though? Maybe you’re seeing a slight increase in click-throughs from Pinterest, or some growth in your Facebook Page followers, or you’ve gotten a comment or two this past month.
Look for those positive things, those increases, those upward trends and make sure that you remind yourself of those when you want to be discouraged about other areas that are standing still or decreasing.
It’s also important to remember that there are ebbs and flows in blogging — and in any business.
Even now, we have months when we bring nothing home because all of the income is invested back into the business or into paying business expenses. When those low income months come or when traffic tanks, it’s easy to start getting nervous or stressed.
I have to remind myself that peaks and valleys are all part of running a business. And this is also why it’s important to have a good emergency fund in place for the business and to set aside the bulk of the extra income during those peak months to help offset the valley months.
In addition, it’s important to remember that traffic and income aren’t the only ways to gauge progress. If I’ve learned and grown individually, if my marriage has been strengthened, if I’ve had the opportunity to encourage and bless someone through my blog, if I’ve chosen to be offline in order to invest in people… if my stats are down because life is in a healthier place, that’s more important.
5) Am I forgetting that success requires sacrifice?
In the last few years, person after person after person has made comments to me like, “Man, it must be so nice to be you!” “It must be so nice to make a full-time income blogging, get invited to speaking gigs, get to travel, have a great team, have a successful blog…”
You fill in the blank, people have probably said it.
And here’s the truth: I’m incredibly grateful and humbled to be where I’m at today. I don’t take it for granted and I know that it is the result of God’s blessing, hard work, and all of you readers who show up here every week and read, comment, buy my books, and tell your friends.
But I want to be frank with you and tell you that this life of running my own successful business, speaking, traveling, having book deals, getting media opportunities, etc. is not always fun and glamorous.
For instance…

The week I recorded my audiobook, I was stuck in this tiny, drafty room in the basement of a house that had been turned into a recording studio. I was having voice problems and we had to break the recording into three days just to be able to get a good enough recording.
It was grueling work and I would go home beat every single night.

People often gush to me about how amazing it must be to get to travel all over the country and how cool it is that I get to see all these historic landmarks and interesting places.

The truth is: I spend most of my time on trips holed up in hotel rooms practicing my talks, getting slides ready, calming my nerves, keeping up with blogging, and missing my family.



I think people often get the impression that I spend my days with full-on makeup doing cool things like filming in front of bright lights and cameras.

The truth is: Most of my days look more like this.

And there are multiple nights per month that are like this where I’m up late after my family goes to bed, no makeup on, hair a mess, yoga pants donned, wearing my neck wrap because my neck aches, pressing through to finish a project for a looming deadline.

And while it’s fun to get to do gigs where you have a makeup artist on set to help you look your best, you never really get to enjoy it because you’re so nervous about whatever is coming next once the makeup artist is done. 🙂
I share these pictures and this reality because I think it’s good to remember that “success” of whatever kind doesn’t come without a lot of sacrifice.
It’s good to become experienced at doing hard things. At pushing forward even when you’re tired. At focusing on the positive even when it feels like there are so many negatives.
This resolve and perseverance is imperative if you want to blog or run your own business or do anything for the long haul.

So those are 5 questions I encourage you to ask yourself, Megan (and anyone else who feels like they are in a similar boat to Megan.) I also encourage you to ask those closest to you to answer these questions about you. I find that honest assessment from those who know me best is highly information and helpful.
In addition to asking yourself those 5 questions, I’d suggest possibly considering doing one or all of these four things:
- Take a break — Sometimes, stepping away from the thing that’s draining us can be the best thing to help us clear our heads and have better perspective. Consider taking a few days off from blogging to see if you have any clarity and direction by doing so.
- Try something different — Try vlogging or blogging less or only posting on topics as you’re inspired or posting fewer deals and more content pieces. Change things up and see if that gives you fresh inspiration — or maybe even increased engagement on your blog.
- Stop paying attention to the noise and stats — I really encourage you to set boundaries on how often you check your stats. In fact, if they are discouraging you, it might be wise to just completely stop checking them for a period of time. That sounds drastic, but I’ve found it to be a good thing if I’m becoming too focused on stats.
- Remember what really matters — What’s going to matter most in 25 years from now? Make sure that you are intentionally investing time and energy each day into those things.
What advice, suggestions, and encouragement do the rest of you have for Megan?
P.S. Want some step-by-step help to get started making money blogging? Check out this post where I walk you through how do just that. Have a question on blogging or business that you’d love for me to answer in a post? Leave a comment with your question here.

Free Fishing Days for 2015
Did you know that all U.S. States offer Free Fishing Days — when you can fish in public bodies of water without a fishing license?
Check to see when your state’s Free Fishing Days in 2015 are at this page here.
Thanks, My Frugal Adventures!
Tip: Use the “Map My Run” app to save time while shopping at garage sales
Tip: Use the “Map My Run” app to save time while shopping at garage sales

Lori emailed in the following tip:
It’s that time of year again…the tables are loaded, the garage doors are raised, and minivan after minivan begins circling the neighborhood.
Garage Sale Season is here and if you are anything like me, your favorite sales come in clusters — like large neighborhoods. However, if you are also like me, that can mean circling the same houses repeatedly, lost in the twists and turns or caught in the cul-de-sacs.
One of the most frustrating aspects of shopping large neighborhood sales is not being familiar with the area; therefore, not having a clue which way to turn when approaching the next intersection. You simply cannot remember whether you have already been down that street or not, until you slow down at the next sale to discover you’ve passed that Party Sized Palm Tree sitting by the curb three times already!
Today, however, that all changed for me. With the free “Map My Run” App downloaded to my phone, not only do I know where I’ve been, I can also see where I have yet to be! The app traces the route that I travel as I wind my way through the twisting and turning streets. As I approach an intersection, I have only to stop and check the “map” shown on the app to know whether to turn right or left.
No more circling endlessly, wondering if I have covered all the different sales being offered in an addition. By seeing that I have traveled each of the streets, I know I have “seen” all the sales available. This saved me so much time (and gas!) since I wasn’t backtracking or spending time circling the same section multiple times due to not being certain which street to take to get “out” to a main road. -Lori
Brigette’s $87 Grocery Shopping Trip and Weekly Menu Plan for 6
Brigette’s $87 Grocery Shopping Trip and Weekly Menu Plan for 6
Since I was under-budget last week, I decided to go ahead and take advantage of a decent sale on ground beef this week. I try to stretch ground beef as much as possible (or mix it with turkey), so this will probably last us for around 6 weeks. I also couldn’t pass up buying more cheese for that price. 🙂
Aldi
1 2-lb bag Lemons – $2.49
1 3-lb bag Oranges – $2.99
1 head Cabbage – $1.29
1 head Cauliflower – $1.99
1 12-oz jar Almond Butter – $5.49
1 bag Kale – $1.99
1 20-oz pkg Zucchini – $1.99
1 3-lb bag Fuji Apples – $2.99, plus receive $0.25 back from Checkout 51 – $2.74
1 3-ct pkgs Romaine Hearts – $3.98
3 14.75oz cans Salmon – $6.87
2 dozen Eggs – $2.78
1 bag Mini Sweet Peppers – $1.69
1 1-lb bag Tilapia Fillets – $3.49
1 8-oz can Cocoa – $2.19
1 3-ct bag Avocados – $1.99
1 18-oz box Corn Flakes – $1.49
1 24-oz container Cottage Cheese – $2.29
1 8-oz can Baking Powder – $0.99
Total after Rebate: $48.73
Harris Teeter
1 Peter Pan Peanut Butter – $1.27
4 boxes Horizon Macaroni and Cheese – $5.00, used 2 $0.75/2 printable (doubled) – $2.00/4 after coupons
8.14lbs of Ground Beef ($2.99/lb) – $24.34
2 Softsoap Liquid Handsoap – $2.00
1 Colgate Enamel Health Toothpaste – $2.00, used $2/1 Colgate Optic White Express White, Optic White Platinum or Enamel Heath Toothpaste, exp. 5/9/15 (SS 04/26/15) – FREE after coupon
2 2-lb bags Carrots – $1.94
1 bag Simply Potatoes Hash Browns – $1.64, used $0.50/1 Simply Potatoes Hash Browns, exp. 05/23/15 (SS 03/29/15 R) – $0.64 after coupon
2 16-oz containers Friendship Cottage Cheese – $3.98, used 2 $0.55/1 printable (doubled) – $1.88/2 after coupons
2 16-oz packs Harris Teeter Bacon – $4.99
5 8-oz bags assorted Shredded Cheese – $6.50
1 gallon milk – $2.99
3 bags frozen Vegetables – $3.00
used $10/50 Publix Coupon (Competitor)
Total $38.84
Weekly Menu Plan
Breakfasts
Oatmeal with Strawberries (from the freezer) x 2
Smoothies (using frozen fruit and cottage cheese – sounds weird, but tastes great!), Toasted Easy Whole Wheat Bread x 2
Cereal x 2
Veggie Omelettes
Lunches
Macaroni and Cheese, Apples, Carrots x 2
Build-Your-Own-Tossed-Salad (salad greens, veggies, shredded cheese, sunflower seeds, hard boiled eggs, salmon) x 2
Peanut Butter and Honey Sandwiches, Oranges, Fresh Veggies with Dip
Leftovers x 2
Dinners
Lasagna Casserole, Tossed Salad, Easy Italian Breadsticks
Chinese Chicken Stir-Fry, Rice, Oranges
Breakfast for Dinner: Fluffy Pancakes, Scrambled Eggs, Bacon
Pan Fried Tilapia, Grilled Vegetables (cauliflower, peppers, zucchini), Grilled Three Cheese Potatoes
Meat Potato Quiche (using ham from the freezer), Broccoli, Easy Whole Wheat Bread (I will make a double batch of this to use for breakfasts too)
Leftovers x 2









Did you know you can make a nice little side stream of income by taking online surveys? I’ve used some of the



