Money Saving Mom®

Guest post by Lindsay from Lindsay Sews

With some changes to your everyday life, you can change your spending habits and essentially “raise” thousands of dollars for your adoption by saving.

Here are just a few ideas to get you started! 

Coupon Camp:

Ramp up your couponing efforts by getting together a group to swap and share coupons. Subscribe to a few extra copies of the Sunday paper (or find more ways to get coupons for free!) for extra savings on essentials.

Pull the Plug:

Turn off extra features on your cell phone plan, cable subscription, or insurance plan (auto and home). Check your bank statement or credit card bill and see what is being auto-billed to you, that you could cut back on.

Gym membership not being used? Netflix subscription no longer worth the money? You’d be surprised how much money you can save with these simple switches.

Fuel Fixers:

Plan your errands nearby your home, so you can walk or ride a bike. If you must drive, group trips together to save on fuel.

Try carpooling or working from home if it’s an option. If you drive a gas guzzler, consider switching to a lower-cost vehicle that has better gas mileage. If you still have a car payment, consider downgrading your vehicle to a car that has a lower payment or no payment.

Eating In:

Make eating at home a fun time by cooking themed meals with friends, and take turns hosting a pot-luck. If you spend money on coffee at the drive through, switch to home-brewed. Plan meals according to what you can get on sale that week, instead of what sounds good in the moment.

Forgift Me Not:

Think about how much you currently spend on gifts for birthdays, baby showers, weddings, anniversaries, Mother’s Day, Father’s Day, Christmas, and Valentine’s Day. Instead of buying gifts for your friends and family this year, make a conscious effort to give them a thoughtful gift like a CD mix of music, a scrapbook made with recycled papers, or a handwritten note.

Retail Reset:

Instead of shopping for a new dress, swim goggles, or backpack, ask around to see if you can borrow or swap with a friend. If you are tempted by racks of new clothing, switch to thrift stores.

Entertain Me:

Trade movie nights at the theater for $1-rental movies at home, through sites like Redbox. Instead of taking a large summer vacation, switch to a few shorter, weekend jaunts or go somewhere that you can stay with friends or family.

I also recommend the book Adopt Without Debt by Julie Gumm. After you’ve done the hard work of pinching your pennies, here are some ideas for fundraisers you can use to finance your adoption:

• Get friends together for a community garage sale and adoption fundraiser.
• Ask about employer-based adoption assistance.
• Host a ___ – a-thon (bike-a-thon, cook-a-thon, bake-a-thon etc.).
• Sell flower bulbs, candy, or candles.
• Hold a car wash in a prominent location in town.
• Recycle ink cartridges and old cell phones for cash.
• Collect donated books, CDs, and DVDs and sell on Amazon or Half.com.
• Host a heritage dinner fundraiser (with foods from your adoptive child’s home country).
• Collect recipes from friends and family and sell a fundraiser cookbook.
• Organize a raffle or silent auction with donated items from local businesses (car washes, gift certificates, and more).
• Set up a “Baby Fund” at a tax-deductible donations site and ask for that instead of holiday or birthday gifts.
• Sell t-shirts with an adoption-themed slogan to rally friends while you earn support.
• Hold a bake sale or handmade/craft sale with your friends and contacts as vendors.
• Check into home shopping party fundraisers, like Pampered Chef.
• Set up a website to sell handmade artwork or crafts.
• Check into adoption grants.

Lindsay Conner is a crafter, writer and editor near Indianapolis. She blogs at Lindsay Sews and sells handmade fabric earrings to raise money for adoption at her Etsy Shop, where MoneySavingMom.com readers can save 30% off with the coupon code SAVE30.

Guest post from Kaylee of Couponing & Cooking

Ten months ago I started couponing. Over the last year, I have certainly had to tweak my couponing ways and find out what works for us, how much we realistically need of each item, and how sale cycles work in my area. However, one of the biggest and most effective changes I have made is couponing using cash.

Although we were seeing a significant impact on our monthly spending by couponing, I still felt like there had to be a better way to make those savings work for us and have a greater impact on our weekly and monthly saving goals.

I have always been a debit card kind of girl. My husband and I have a budget and a savings plan but we just never made that leap to a cash envelope system.  After reading MoneySavingMom.com for a few months, I started to think long and hard about the benefits of using cash.

My husband and I discussed it and decided to try using cash for our weekly grocery, toiletries and household shopping. We decided to try it for the month of January and we love it so much it is now a permanent part of our lives.

Here are just four of the ways switching to cash has made me a more effective couponer:

1. It forces me to stick to our budget. 

Let’s face it, as someone who coupons, it can be so tempting to spend a little more because you are getting a great deal. I try to be as practical as I can in my couponing but I still struggle with this every once and awhile.

We have set a budget of $80 a week for all household shopping. This includes groceries, toiletries, and all household items. This allows me to buy what we need and add to my stockpile, pantry and freezer without blowing our weekly budget. If there is a great deal that I want to stock up on, I have to take into account what else we need that week before I take advantage of the deal.

2. It forces me to plan my shopping trips.  

I have always tried to make a list before I go shopping and stick to it. Before I started paying in cash, I could be more flexible with my list and what I chose to buy.

Now that I only have a set amount of cash to spend, I carry a calculator with me and as I go through my list I add up my total spending to make sure I am staying on target. This forces me to avoid impulse buys and really ask myself if we truly need something or if I am just buying it because it’s a good deal.

3. It keeps our stockpile under control. 

One of the benefits of couponing is having a stockpile or a supply of grocery and household items on hand so you don’t have to make an extra trip and pay full price for something when you run out. It has allowed us plan our meals better, entertain friends on a budget, and give more to homeless shelters and food banks.

Having a set weekly spending budget helps keep our stockpile at a reasonable size. I can’t buy unlimited amounts of things even if it is a great deal. This has forced us to be more practical about couponing and kept us from failing into the trap of having excessive amounts of things or buying what we can’t use in a timely manner.

4. It helps us save more and balance our budget. 

As I said earlier, couponing significantly lowered our weekly and monthly spending. I was able to start budgeting less for groceries and household items but the number still changed from week to week.

We now pull out two week’s worth of spending cash each pay day. This allows me to know exactly what is going to be coming out and budget the rest of our pay checks accordingly.

If we have extra money left in the envelope at the end of the two weeks, we split it between our long term and short term savings accounts. This allows us to save more on top of what we already budget for savings; and by also putting some of it in a “short term” savings account, we can spent that money on house projects or a fun weekend trip.

If you are reading this and thinking that using cash is a hassle, just know that I was you six months ago! I could never have imagined how something as easy and simple as using cash would make me a more efficient shopper, couponer and budgeter — but I am now converted to the cash envelope system and I’m not looking back!

Kaylee is a full time Catholic high school teacher and novice blogger from South Florida who loves cooking, couponing, and bargain hunting. She’s married to Justin, a firefighter-paramedic who although skeptical at first is totally supportive of her couponing and other money saving endeavors. They are currently enjoying the process of renovating and decorating our first home as time and budget allows. Kaylee blogs about her successes and failures both in the kitchen and at the store at Couponing & Cooking.

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