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Less Smart Phone, More Communication

Published: by Crystal Paine on October 14, 2013 | This post may contain affiliate links. Read my disclosure policy here.

During the month of October, I’m following along with Edie & Ruth on their 31 Days of Less & More journey. I’d love for you to join in by reading the posts and completing the projects, or just sit back and read along each day.

Less Smart Phone

It took my husband two years to convince me that getting a smart phone was a good idea. I had all sorts of excuses about how extravagant and unnecessary it was, but in the end, he won.

And he was so very right. 🙂

Since I have a business and travel regularly, my smart phone saves me an incredible amount of time, money, and hassle. I can keep up on emails, manage my team, have conference calls, check into my flights, get directions when I’m driving, keep track of all my travel information, and get internet pretty much anywhere without having to pay an extra fee.

I am much more efficient thanks to my smart phone. It streamlines my life and saves my sanity. But it can also take over my life. Thus, the reason I have Smart Phone Rules. These are not hard and fast rules and maybe these won’t be the same rules I’ll have for years to come, but right now, they are working really well for me:

1. I Don’t Play Games

I know, I’m so very boring aren’t I? But here’s the thing: I don’t need any more reasons to be connected to electronics. So I just haven’t learned how to play any of the games and then I don’t know what I’m missing. 🙂

2. I Only Have a Few Apps

This is the minimalist in me, but it really streamlines my life. I have a very small number of apps I use and I rarely add new ones.

3. I Don’t Update My Blog/Facebook From My Phone

This is just a personal preference thing, but it’s also a way to stay more untethered. If I don’t have things set up so I can update my blog or Facebook Page with my phone, I won’t be tempted to do so.

4. I Leave My Phone Off Sometimes

Novel idea, I know. 🙂 But truly, I think it’s important to know that I can survive untethered. So sometimes, when I’m with friends or we’re going out somewhere, I leave my phone off — or leave it home altogether.

See Ruth’s Smart Phone Rules here. Great food for thought!

More Communication

It’s pretty easy to send quick texts or tweets or to email someone through Facebook, but many times, there’s not a lot of real depth or sacrifices required in these relationships.

It takes much more effort to meet someone for coffee, to call your friend to pray with her over the phone, to drop everything to help a neighbor in need. Close, long-lasting friendships take work, effort, and time, but they are so worth it.

If you don’t have any close friendships in your life right now, can I encourage you to do all you can to cultivate friendships? To have friends you have to be a friend. Reach out, ask questions, be a listener, be interested, give, care, pray, offer to help… I’ve found that the more I invest in others, the more I’m blessed in return!

For more on this topic, check out Ruth’s post on Less Smart Phone and Edie’s post on More Communication. I promise you’ll be inspired and blessed!

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How Simple Routines Save Me A Lot of Money

Published: by Crystal Paine on October 14, 2013 | This post may contain affiliate links. Read my disclosure policy here.

Guest post from Katie of Holidays for Less

I am not a “routine” person by nature. I am not a type-A personality or even very organized for that matter. But out of necessity, I had to start a few routines to keep myself (and my family) sane! Once I saw how my routines are not only saving me time but money, I forced myself to become a “routine” person!

So, how do my routines save me money?

Here are three simple routines I’ve implemented in my own life that have helped me save time and money.

1. Packing lunches the night before

I work outside the home, so I’ve gotten in the routine of making my lunch for the next day before I go to bed. I pack every single thing that I will need and put my whole lunch bag in the fridge.

Sometimes that means my popcorn or spoon sit in the fridge over night. I’m okay with that, because on the nights that I slack off and don’t pack my lunch, I always end up buying my lunch (and sometimes breakfast, too!) because there’s never enough time in the morning.

If I buy lunch, it runs about $6 and breakfast costs between $3-$4. That’s $10 a day! Start multiplying that by a month or even a year and the numbers get really ugly!

That savings is motivation enough to stick to my evening lunch-packing routine.

2. Fueling up on Sundays

Between my commute to work and standard errands around town, a tank of gas lasts me exactly one week. I used to just fill up whenever I needed; however, I found that many times, I would end up filling up on the highway, which is always the most expensive place for gas!

So I finally made myself get in a routine of filling up every Sunday. This way, I was in control of where I was when I needed gas.

Even if it’s a holiday week and I don’t use my car as much, I top my tank off on Sunday, to ensure I’m not stuck low on gas mid-week. I always use the same gas station because it is the cheapest in my area.

Since I have started this routine, I have never found myself just going to the nearest gas station and I have averaged a savings of about $15 per month.

3. Updating the budget daily (on my lunch break)

I am the keeper of the finances in my house, which means I keep our monthly budget updated. I used to keep my budget (an excel spreadsheet) on my home computer, but I would be too tired at night to update it, or I would just plain forget.

Then, the end of the month would roll around and suddenly I was in a panic looking back and what we’d spent and hoping we hadn’t gone over in our budget categories. Many months, not surprisingly, we had gone over, which meant less money going in to our savings account that month.

In an effort to fix this problem, I’ve now moved my budget to be housed on my work computer and gotten in to the routine of updating my budget during the first 5 minutes of my lunch break each day. I literally look at and update my budget Monday through Friday each week. Some days, I have nothing to enter and some days (like Mondays!) I have quite a few things to enter.

I’ve been in this routine for 5 months now and not only have we kept within our budget each month, but many months we’ve come in well under budget — allowing us to put even more money in savings. In fact, last month we received our car insurance bill for the year and instead of dipping in to the savings we have for that bill, we were able to pay it entirely out of our monthly income. This never would have been possible just 6 months ago!

Routines can be intimidating to the organizationally challenged, like myself, but if you can find a routine that doesn’t take much time out of your day and actually saves you money, I promise it will be much easier to stick to!

Katie is a wife and mother who loves a great deal and helping her family save towards their financial goals. In her spare time, Katie blogs at Holidays for Less, where she shares ideas and deals that will make parties, holidays and general entertaining easier on your wallet.

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Swagbucks Paid For Our Christmas

Published: by Crystal Paine on October 14, 2013 | This post may contain affiliate links. Read my disclosure policy here.

Today’s Swagbucks success story is from Kira:

Beginning in January of 2012, I found our budget was becoming tighter and tighter. I went from a part-time job to no job outside of the home — which meant our family was totally dependent my husband’s income. At that time, his income was not consistent and we started pinching every penny.

I found that our Christmas savings account could no longer have money deposited each week like it had been. Actually, by April I noticed I had not yet contributed to it at all. Thankfully, I had begun using Swagbucks.

Between surveys and searching, I saw the points racking up. I continued to redeem at every 450 points that would rack up for a Amazon Gift Card. In November, I noticed I had $150 in gift cards.

This might not seem like a lot, but with all the incredible deals that Amazon was offering, I was able to have a fantastic Christmas for my three young boys. The living room was loaded! I was so thankful, and realized the blessing that Swagbucks had been for my family.

I know Christmas isn’t about gifts at all, but for little ones, they certainly look forward to seeing those gifts under the tree on Christmas morning. My husband and I love to see that sparkling in their eyes when they first look downstairs.

I will continue to use Swagbucks as long as it is around. I’m thankful for Christmas 2012 and Swagbucks!!

Kira: can you email me so I can send you your $50 gift card for submitting your story? Thanks so much!

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Freezer Cooking in an Hour: Taco Meat & Pumpkin Waffles

Published: by Crystal Paine on October 12, 2013 | This post may contain affiliate links. Read my disclosure policy here.

I did a sort of mini Freezer Cooking session this week, because I was a little strapped for time between homeschooling, training a team member for a new position, and prepping for a big week with three different conferences this coming week.

I made a big batch of Taco Meat for the freezer. See how I make this here, if you missed that post.

And I also made Pumpkin Waffles. Notice anything weird-looking about the batter above? I almost forgot to put the pumpkin in and right after I took the picture I realized my mistake.

Yes, I’m all organized like that… trying to make Pumpkin Waffles sans pumpkin! 🙂 Gratefully, I caught it right before I started cooking them because I thought the batter looked a little too dry.

I didn’t get any pictures of the finished waffles, because none of them made it to the freezer. 🙂 They were delicious… although I don’t want to know what the calorie count is since they have 3/4 cups of butter in them and they don’t make very many. Just don’t tell me, okay?! 🙂

In other news from this past week, I had to share these beautiful flowers Jesse gave me. Just because. I love that man!

And I also had to share this picture of Kaitlynn because it just so perfectly captures everything about her personality. Seeing the unique individuality of each of my children blossom is such a beautiful thing to watch.

How was your week? Did you do any freezer cooking? If so, I’d love to hear about it!

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Less Discontentment, More Gratitude

Published: by Crystal Paine on October 12, 2013 | This post may contain affiliate links. Read my disclosure policy here.

During the month of October, I’m following along with Edie & Ruth on their 31 Days of Less & More journey. I’d love for you to join in by reading the posts and completing the projects, or just sit back and read along each day.

Less Discontentment

When you look around you, there is always someone who seems to have more than you do. Or a better life than you have. Or quicker success than you’ve had. Or can lose weight more easily and keep it off. Or a better marriage. Or more incredible talents. Or more money. And on and on it goes.

Life is full of things that don’t seem fair. And if you choose to dwell on those things, you can quickly become discouraged, discontent, and downright frustrated.

But life is also full of beautiful things — if you look for them. Your perspective and attitude on life won’t usually change your circumstances, but it can sure change the way you feel.

You don’t need more of anything in order to be more content. Contentment is a choice. It’s something you can wake up every day and decide to be — whether you’re a prince or a pauper, you can choose contentment.

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More Gratitude

I’ve said it many times before, but it bears repeating: There is ALWAYS something to be grateful for. No matter your circumstances, no matter your situation, if you start looking for things to appreciate, you’ll begin to find them all around you.

And that’s why I love the exercise of writing in a gratitude journal every day. Because it forces you to pay attention to the things you might take for granted otherwise. Not only that, but it inspires you to make thanksgiving a part of your each and every day.

Take time today to say “thank you” — for the little things and the big things. Blessings are all around you if you will only take time to notice!

Want to develop more contentment in your life? Read my post with 16 Ways to Become More Content.

For more on this topic, check out Ruth’s post on Less Discontentment and Edie’s post on More Gratitude. I promise you’ll be inspired and blessed!

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Stretching Taco Meat to Save Money

Published: by Crystal Paine on October 11, 2013 | This post may contain affiliate links. Read my disclosure policy here.

One way we save money is by stretching our taco meat. We love using this meat in tacos and Haystacks!

It’s super simple to do!

I just brown two to three pounds of ground beef with 1-2 chopped onions. Then, I add in homemade taco seasoning mix (or just taco seasonings).

After that, I add in some 2-4 cups beans (most any kind will work — and you can use canned or home-cooked beans) and 1 can of diced tomatoes (or diced fresh tomatoes). I cook this mixture through and it’s ready to serve or cool and freeze.

The extra add-ins add some bulk and flavor and add at least the equivalent of an extra pound of ground beef. My family doesn’t even know most people eat taco meat without add-ins since we’ve been doing this all our married lives!

What creative ideas do you have for stretching taco meat? I’d love to hear in the comments!

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Less Greed, More Generosity

Published: by Crystal Paine on October 10, 2013 | This post may contain affiliate links. Read my disclosure policy here.

During the month of October, I’m following along with Edie & Ruth on their 31 Days of Less & More journey. I’d love for you to join in by reading the posts and completing the projects, or just sit back and read along each day.

Less Greed

It’s easy to give from our abundance, but true giving requires sacrifice. This is something God has really been teaching me in recent years.

Since I’m not one who is very attached to many items, giving stuff to other people is fun, but it’s relatively easy to do. For instance, if I’m going to be getting rid of an item anyway, is it really a sacrifice to pass it onto a friend instead of tossing it in the Goodwill box? No, not really.

Giving of my time and effort, on the other hand, is an area where I often struggle. I can be stingy when it comes to giving of myself or setting aside my neatly planned out day to meet a need in someone’s life.

When a child needs me to drop everything I’m doing to help them with something, I can be feel frustrated or interrupted. Or when my husband calls and asks me to run an errand for him, it’s my natural reaction to feel irritated.

For me, that’s often the giving that matters the most. Because it’s giving where it really costs me something.

However, every time I give in a way that requires sacrifice, I’m so very blessed in the end. And it inspires me to let go even more and live with arms stretched out wide.

More Generosity

When Jesse and I traveled to the Dominican Republic one thing that struck me was how generous these people were. They barely had anything and yet they were constantly offering us what little they had.

And they weren’t just giving us their leftovers; they were offering us their very best — the best chair to sit on or the best food they had to eat. It deeply challenged and convicted me.

I want to live my life with arms open wide. Willingly and gladly giving of my best for others. Holding nothing back. And at the end of my life, I want to have used up everything I was given — for others.

For more on this topic, check out Ruth’s post on Less Greed and Edie’s post on More Giving. I promise you’ll be inspired and blessed!

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Gretchen’s $36 Grocery Shopping Trip and Weekly Menu Plan

Published: by Crystal Paine on October 10, 2013 | This post may contain affiliate links. Read my disclosure policy here.

Aldi

1 Loaf Bread – $1.29

1 Gala Apples – $1.88

1 Red Grapes – $1.58

1 Flour Tortillas – $0.99

1 Corn Tortillas – $1.29

2 canned Green Beans – $0.48 each

2 Cheddar Cheese – $1.79 each

1 Frozen Orange Juice – $1.29

1 can Black Beans – $0.59

1 Cauliflower – $1.69

1 Cabbage – $1.29

1 Roma Tomatoes – $1.59

1 Lime – $0.25

1 Avocado – $0.79

Total with tax ($1.36): $20.42 (I think this is the most I have ever spent at Aldi but with prices seeming to be so high at Dillons these days, I’m going to have to start spending more money at Aldi and less at Dillons.)

Dillons

1 Green Onions – $0.69

1 Honey Nut Cheerios – $1.99, used $0.50/1 e-coupon – $1.49 after coupon

1 Multigrain Cheerios – $1.99, used $0.75/1 e-coupon – $1.24 after coupon

1 Kroger Brown Rice – $1.29

1 Simple Truth Milk (gallon) – Marked down to $1.99

1 can Pinto Beans – $0.67

1 Big K Ginger Ale – $0.84

1 Kroger Chocolate Pudding – $0.69

1 Kroger Frozen Chopped Onions – $1

1 can Black Olives – $1.50

3 Noxzema Razors – $2, used 3 $2/1 coupon from the 9/29 RedPlum insert – Free after coupons

2 Breyers Ice Cream – $2.99 each, used $1.25/2 e-coupon – $2.36 each after coupon

2.65 lbs Bananas @ $0.35/lb – $0.93

1 Cucumber – $0.75

1 Romaine Lettce – $0.99

1 Dillons Eggs (dozen) – $1.69

I had a $3 e-coupon come off my card and I have no idea what it was attached to. (Anyone know if there’s a way to find out?) I also used my $3 catalina from last week’s Dillons trip.

Total before sales and coupons: $39.92

Total with tax (1.77) after sales and coupons: $16.26

Total for all grocery items: $36.68

Menu Plan for this Week

Breakfasts

Smoothies, Cereal, Toast, Baked Oatmeal to Go

Lunches

Cheese Quesadillas, Peanut Butter & Jelly Sandwiches, Tossed Salad, Tuna Sandwiches

Dinners

Apple Turkey Picadillo, Rice, Banana Muffins, Green Beans

Black Bean & Salmon Tostadas (I’m substituting Chicken for the Salmon), Tossed Salad, Sliced Apples

Hot Chile Grilled Cheese, Fruit Salad, Steamed Cauliflower

Marmalade Chicken, Rolls, Green Beans

Dinner with our Sunday School class (we are bringing dessert)

Dinner with family x 2

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Gretchen’s Target Shopping Trips: Spent $9.88 for $26.11 worth of products

Published: by Crystal Paine on October 10, 2013 | This post may contain affiliate links. Read my disclosure policy here.

Target Shopping Trip #1

1 Personal Fan – Marked down to $5.08 (I was so excited to find these fans marked down as I have been looking for a good deal on one for weeks!)

1 Palmolive Dish Soap – $1.47, used $0.75/1 Target Mobile coupon AND $0.50/1 coupon from the 9/22 SmartSource insert – $0.22 after coupons

1 Up & Up Floss – $0.87, used $1/1 Target printable – Free after coupon

2 Tresemme Conditioner – $3.31 each, used 2 $2.50/1 coupon from the 9/29 RedPlum insert AND $2/2 Target printable – Free after coupons

2 Fage Greek Yogurt – $1 each, used $1/4 printable AND $1/4 Target printable – $0.50 each after coupons

Total after coupons: $7.30

Target Shopping Trip #2

(I happened to be on the other side of town today and ran into the Target there to grab a couple more deals that weren’t in stock at my Target.)

2 Classico Pizza Sauce – $1.64 each, used 2 $0.85/1 Target printable – $0.79 each after coupons

2 Del Monte Fruit Burst – $2.50, used 2 $1/1 printable AND 2 $1/1 Target printable – $0.50 each after coupons

Total after coupons: $2.58

Total for both transactions before coupons: $26.11

Total for both transactions after coupons: $9.88

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Less Disappointment, More Wonder

Published: by Crystal Paine on October 9, 2013 | This post may contain affiliate links. Read my disclosure policy here.

During the month of October, I’m following along with Edie & Ruth on their 31 Days of Less & More journey. I’d love for you to join in by reading the posts and completing the projects, or just sit back and read along each day.

Less Disappointment

Part of living life is being disappointed — by people, experiences, opportunities, jobs, and more. Life is a series of some mountaintop experiences with lots of valleys and hard times in between.

We can either become victims or victors in our circumstances. It’s our choice.

We can choose to keep pressing forward even when friends let us down, marriages fail, jobs end, and health deteriorates. Or we can choose to sit and wallow over our miserable circumstances. But will that accomplish any good? No.

More Wonder

Reading One Thousand Gifts earlier this year really challenged me to stop rushing through life so much and stop to savor life more. There is so much wonder and beauty in each day. The smile of a little child, the colors of a flower, the smell of soup cooking… if we take time to notice and pay attention, there are beautiful things all around us.

And even in the darkest, most disappointing days, there is always a glimmer of light. No matter how difficult the situation you are in, as long as you’re breathing, there is hope.

Don’t let disappointment swallow up your hope, your joy, or your life. Look for the beauty in every day. As the saying goes, “you usually see what you look for.”

For more on this topic, check out Ruth’s post on Less Disappointment and Edie’s post on More Wonder. I promise you’ll be inspired and blessed!

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Q&A: Will I get a bunch of spam emails if I sign up for freebies?

Published: by Crystal Paine on October 9, 2013 | This post may contain affiliate links. Read my disclosure policy here.

Hey there, I was wondering if you see a jump in unsolicited spam-type emails and calls once you start responding to these offers and freebies? -Lisa

Great question, Lisa! And I think it’s one that a lot of people have.

Here are some of my thoughts:

1. Set Up a Separate Free Email Account

First off, you will get emails from companies that you sign up for offers and deals with. The main reason they are usually offering a freebie or coupon is so they’ll get your email address.

To prevent your main inbox from becoming overrun with offers and company emails, set up a separate email account to use for freebies and coupons. This is simple to do and will save you from dealing with a lot of spam or unwanted email in your main account.

2. Don’t Sign Up for Shady Freebies

If it sounds too good to be true, it often is. I try my best to vet deals before posting them, but occasionally something will slip past me.

Always check a site out if something looks off. Is it hosted on the main company’s site? Does the Facebook Page have a lot of entries and likes (there are a lot of scam Facebook Pages)? Is the offer mentioned on the company’s website or Facebook Page?

Some tell-tale signs of possible scams are:

Blatant typos on a page
A high-value freebie that’s hosted on a non-company site
A bunch of hoops you have to jump through to get the freebie
A site offering a free product that doesn’t tell you where you can actually buy the product (no shopping cart on the site and no links to where you can purchase it)
A freebie advertised for a product that doesn’t seem to be available anywhere.

These aren’t always scams, but these are things I look for when deciding whether something is legit or not.

If you’re not 100% sure that an offer is legit, don’t sign up for it.

3. Don’t Give Out Your Phone Number

Unless you’re comfortable with it, don’t give out your phone number. Spam emails are not fun, but sales calls and texts are even much more disruptive in my opinion. Just skip offers that require a phone number and save yourself the headache!

Do the rest of you have advice to add for Lisa? I’d love to hear!

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Ask The Readers: What do you do with food nobody likes?

Published: by Crystal Paine on October 9, 2013 | This post may contain affiliate links. Read my disclosure policy here.

Today’s question is from Jessica:

What do you do when you try a new recipe and nobody likes it? Do you eat it until it’s gone anyway, and just don’t make it again? Do you throw it out after tasting a few bites? Offer it to someone else?

As far as I know, food pantries don’t accept home-cooked foods, and we don’t have nearby family to pass things to, either. In the past month, I had to toss a pan full of side pork we didn’t like, and a sheet full of pumpkin granola nobody liked.

I usually try 2-3 new recipes each month, and at least one of them is usually a dud, despite my best efforts to find recipes that only include ingredients that we like. After a while, tossing out all that food can be costly. So what to do? -Jessica

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4 Questions You Should Always Ask Before Purchasing Anything

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52 Different Ways to Save at Least $100 Per Year: Is this really a good deal? {Week 32}

Published: by Crystal Paine on October 8, 2013 | This post may contain affiliate links. Read my disclosure policy here.

Every week in 2013, I’ll be sharing a different way you can save $100 this year. If you do all of these things, you’ll be able to save over $5,000 this year alone! Many of these things will likely be things you’re already doing, but hopefully all of you will pick up at least a few new ideas or some inspiration from this series.

This week’s tip is so simple, but it can be extremely effective in helping you save at least $100 per year, if not more.

Before purchasing anything, ask yourself: Is this really a good deal? As I’ve often said, just because something is a great bargain, it doesn’t mean it’s a great deal for you.

Here are four questions to help you think through whether a purchase is a good deal for you:

1. Can I afford this?

If you can’t afford to buy something, it’s not a good deal — no matter how low the price. Period. You don’t need to go onto questions two, three, and four as you’ve already answered the question: don’t buy whatever it is you’re contemplating because you don’t have the money for it.

If it’s something you really want or need, wait and find a way to save extra money to pay for it. I promise it will be much more fulfilling to pay cash in full for something then to have to deal with a credit card bill that you can’t pay down the road.

2. Do I need this?

If your budget is really tight, train yourself to think in terms of need not want. This doesn’t mean, “Will this make my life easier?” Or, “Will this make me happy?” We’re thinking solely in terms of the question, “Can I live without this?” In most cases, you can probably live without the item.

This doesn’t mean you should never buy an item unless it’s an absolute necessity, but it does mean you should be aware of whether or not you can live without something when you’re contemplating whether something is a good deal.

3. Can I get a better deal elsewhere?

In many, many cases, there’s a way to find a better deal. Be it by buying used, asking for a discount, ordering online with a discount code, or waiting for a better sale.

Do your research and don’t just fall for a supposed great deal unless you know it truly is a great deal.

4. Can I use something I already have?

Instead of going out and shopping for new clothes, go through your closet and see what new outfit combinations you can come up with. Instead of buying a new appliance, see if you can fix your old one. Instead of purchasing a new couch, investigate the possibility of re-upholstering the one you already have.

See if there’s a way to make do with what you already have before rushing off to purchase that “great deal”. It’s almost always less expensive to use what you already have than to buy something new.

What questions do you ask yourself before you buy something?

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Less Judgment, More Acceptance

Published: by Crystal Paine on October 8, 2013 | This post may contain affiliate links. Read my disclosure policy here.

During the month of October, I’m following along with Edie & Ruth on their 31 Days of Less & More journey. I’d love for you to join in by reading the posts and completing the projects, or just sit back and read along each day.

Less Judgment

If you’ve been reading my blogs since the beginning (way back before MoneySavingMom.com even existed!), you know I started out as a very black & white, judgmental blogger. I was in my early twenties and I thought I had all of life pretty well figured out.

Oh how I shudder to think of some of the downright harsh things I posted in the early days of blogging! (If I offended you by my dogmatic attitude, would you please email me so I can personally ask forgiveness?)

And it wasn’t just in my blogging. My egotistical, always-right viewpoint across the board offended people, hurt people, and ruined a lot of would-be relationships.

God had to pull the rug from under me and bring me to a place of complete brokenness before I discovered this amazing thing called grace and compassion. It’s been a journey… hard at times, but overall so beautiful. The more I walk this path, the more I learn — and the more I realize how much I don’t know!

More Acceptance

Once I stopped pointing fingers and started offering a helping hand, I realized that the people I’d once criticized weren’t anything like I thought they were. In fact, I’ve learned so much about grace, love, and life from people whom I once upon a time wouldn’t associate with.

I’m also learning that heated words condemning another person’s choices don’t usually solve anything. Loving and listening to a person with a heart full of compassion and care… now that’s the way to make an impact. It’s much more powerful that the loudest, sharpest words ever will be.

For more on this topic, check out Ruth’s post on Less Judgment and Edie’s post on More Acceptance. I promise you’ll be inspired and blessed!

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Do It Yourself: Homemade Pumpkin Pie Spice

Published: by Crystal Paine on October 8, 2013 | This post may contain affiliate links. Read my disclosure policy here.

LivingChicontheCheap.com shows you how to make homemade pumpkin pie spice.

Do you have a fun and frugal DIY idea to share? I’d love to hear about it! Read the submission guidelines and submit it here.

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Less Smart Phone

More Communication

1. Packing lunches the night before

2. Fueling up on Sundays

3. Updating the budget daily (on my lunch break)

Less Discontentment

More Gratitude

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What creative ideas do you have for stretching taco meat? I’d love to hear in the comments!

Less Greed

More Generosity

Aldi

Dillons

Menu Plan for this Week

Breakfasts

Lunches

Dinners

Less Disappointment

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