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Our house in Tennessee has wood floors throughout a lot of it. And even though we’ve lived in quite a few different places over the last 11 years, we’ve never had wood floors.
So this is all new to me and I’m realizing quickly that I need to figure something out since not cleaning the floors isn’t exactly an option. 😉
I’d love your input and suggestions: what’s the best and most efficient way to clean and care for wood floors?
Thank you so very much for your help!
Making a chocolate birthday cake
Silas turned five this week!
In typical Silas fashion, he walked into our room the morning of his birthday and said, “I can’t believe I’m five years old.”
We can’t believe it, either! On the one hand, it seems like he was just a toddler a few months ago, and on the other hand, it seems like he’s twice his age.
Silas asked to go to Chuck E. Cheese’s for his birthday… And he’s been looking forward to it and earning money for it for the past few months.
{He LOVES to pay for things, so he asked if he could earn money to pay for part of the price of tokens for his party. Because he was so excited about doing it, we let him… however, we pitched in quite a bit of extra. :)}
It was my first experience at Chuck E. Cheese’s. (Can you believe I’ve never been there before?) We ended up pretty much having the whole place to ourselves! Even with coupons, it’s nowhere near a frugal outing, but birthdays and memory-making are worth the occasional budgeted splurge! 🙂
In other news, I am thrilled to have a washer and dryer again! Jesse did a lot of research on which set would be best and I’m really happy with the ones he decided to get.
I’m also beyond thrilled to have a true laundry room! Our washer and dryer hook-ups have been in many places in our various houses: in the basement, in a bathroom, off the kitchen, or in the garage entryway… But we’ve never had a true separate laundry room.
I’m envisioning all sorts of ways to organize and dress this place up to make it a little oasis. I figure that since I’ll be spending a lot of time in there, I might as well make it a welcoming haven. 🙂
We did about five loads of laundry today to get all caught up and then had a laundry folding party. With everyone helping, it went really quickly!
As I was getting Silas ready for bed tonight, I noticed something strange in his armpit. Upon further investigation, I discovered it was a tick that was attached. Ick!
It hadn’t been there for longer than 24 hours (gratefully!) and we were able to get it unattached fairly easily. But it was still an eventful hour tonight!
Growing up in the country, I’ve dealt with ticks before. But my kids had never seen one, so it turned into a science lesson about the different types of ticks, how they attach themselves to your body, what the risks are with ticks, and which ticks are the most dangerous. Now we’re all a bit paranoid! 🙂
One of the risks of renting a house without seeing it, was not knowing how the storage space would be. Since we’ve been blessed to have a basement in our last few homes, I was a little concerned about how we’d adjust to not having the luxury of a basement here in TN.
Well, when we got here and saw the house for the first time, I almost squealed when I opened up this door off the kitchen and saw this amazing PANTRY!!! I had no idea this house had a pantry, so this was an incredible bonus.
I know it might seem weird that I was so excited about a pantry, but because I spend so much time in the kitchen and like to buy in bulk, this felt almost like Christmas morning to me. (Yes, you can think I’m crazy!)
My sister and I unpacked the kitchen on moving in day and just got everything into the pantry — we didn’t worry about getting it organized since we were just on a mission to get all the boxes unpacked that weekend. But I knew that one of the first organization projects I wanted to tackle was the pantry.
Today, I had some time to head in there and organize. And it felt so good to get a sort of organized system for what I was going to store where.
Things are pretty sparse right now since we tried to eat down as much of our pantry as we could so we didn’t have as much to move. But I’m looking forward to getting it filled up — and maybe even adding a few more shelves so we can have more storage in here.
I have a question regarding book publishing. I noticed that you recently published your second book and was wondering if you could give me some advice. I have a book idea that I’d really like to get published. I’m not sure where to start, though. The web sites I’ve read so far on book publishing have overwhelmed me. -Amy
Hi, Amy!
That’s exciting that you have a book idea and I love your ambition for wanting to get your book published! I don’t want to discourage you with this post, but I also want to be honest and say that it’s really hard to get a book deal if you haven’t already established a platform online.
Publishers have limited budgets and print capabilities. Meaning, they can only print and market a set number of books each year.
There are so many bloggers and online entrepreneurs with really large followings in this day and age, publishers tend to like proof of your pre-established market before they’ll even consider your manuscript. Publishers want to know that you have at least a few thousand (or more!) people who will buy your book without any marketing efforts from the publisher.
They also need to know that there is a market for what you have to say. If you haven’t already created and built that market, it’s hard to convince them to put time and money into your project — especially when they have dozens of other manuscripts from authors who do have a pre-established market of 5,000 to 20,000 people or more.
The bad news is that if you don’t already have an online following, you need to focus on building a platform before you pursue a publishers.
The good news is that it’s never been easier to build an online platform. With social media networks and the power of viral marketing, everyone who has a unique message and a persevering spirit can build an online platform.
How to Get Started
1. Read Platform by Michael Hyatt — This book will encourage you and give you a vision for how you can build an online platform without money, experience, or even connections.
2. Read my free ebook on How to Make Money Blogging — This ebook isn’t just about making money online. I share step-by-step help for setting up a successful blog and getting people to read what you have to say.
3. Start networking. One of the best ways to learn and grow is to network with others. Find those who are ahead of you, those who are right where you’re at, and those who are just starting on their journey headed in the direction you are. Develop friendships, ask questions, share ideas and advice. Relationships with others who are in a similar position are invaluable!
4. Jump out start doing things. The best thing you can be doing to get yourself closer to getting a book deal is to just start doing things. Many people have great ideas, but they never do much with those ideas. Go experiment. Try things. Make mistakes and learn from them. And keep trying and learning!
5. Keep at it! As I wrote about recently, I think the number one reason most people fail is because they give up too soon. You are going to struggle in the process. You are going to feel insecure. You are going to question why you are doing this. You are going to fail. But success comes to those who refuse to give up.
Recommend reading: How to Write a Book Proposal and Sell Your Book Like Wildfire. I wish I had read both of these books before I wrote my first book!
Need a quick and easy recipe for a hot day? This Oreo ice cream cake is such a simple recipe and everyone loves it!
It’s the perfect recipe for a summer birthday or get-together because it doesn’t heat up the house!
Plus, you can make it several day ahead of time and store it in the freezer until you’re ready to celebrate.
It’s also a great dessert to keep on hand for unexpected guests — everyone loves it!
1. Place Oreos in a ziptop bag or in your food processor and crush them into crumbs (you might need to do this in 2 batches).
2. Reserve 1/2 cup of crushed Oreo crumbs for the topping.
3. In a medium size bowl, mix remaining Oreo crumbs and melted butter.
4. Spread Oreo mixture into a greased 9″ x 13″ pan; pressing firmly to form a crust.
5. Spoon softened ice cream onto the Oreo crust and spread evenly.
6. Drizzle chocolate syrup in a thin layer over the ice cream.
7. Spread softened whipped topping over chocolate syrup.
8. Sprinkle reserved Oreo crumbles over whipped topping.
9. Freeze for at least 4-5 hours, or overnight (for best results).
10. Remove pan from the freezer about 10-15 minutes before serving to thaw slightly.
Make sure to share and save it on your favorite platform below!
Meal time just got so much easier!
I’ve got some GREAT news for you! Many of you have been waiting for a deal on my book, Say Goodbye to Survival Mode. Well, guess what?!? Your deal is here!
Through Saturday, the ebook version of Say Goodbye to Survival Mode is on sale for just $2.99!!! That’s at least $11 off the lowest price we’ve ever seen on this book! And from I’ve heard, this may the only time the price goes this low.
Wondering what Say Goodbye to Survival Mode is about? Here’s a description I shared recently:
Are you exhausted and overwhelmed with life? Do you wake up feeling like you’re already behind — and you haven’t even gotten out of bed? Do you spend most of your days just trying to make through the day?
If that’s you (or someone you know!), you need to get a copy of my book, Say Goodbye to Survival Mode. I wrote this book because I get it. I’ve walked the road of feeling spent, worn down, and burnt out. And after burning the candle at both ends for far too long and hurting my health, marriage, and family in the process, I finally reached a breaking point.
The day I finally hit rock bottom and said, “I can’t live like this any more!” was the day I realized I didn’t have to live in such a frantic, stressed, and overloaded way. There was a road out of survival mode!
In Say Goodbye to Survival Mode, I share candidly about the struggles I faced along the way and the strategies I learned for success. This book is not a fix-your-life-overnight handbook (sorry!). Instead, I’ll take your hand, and gently guide you through a step-by-step journey so that you, too, can:
- feel healthier and more energetic by setting priorities and boundaries,
- eliminate stress with savvy management of your time, money, and home,
- get more done by setting realistic goals and embracing discipline,
- and rediscover your passions—and the confidence to pursue them!
It’d been a busy morning and afternoon I hadn’t sat down once for hours as I’d been homeschooling, cleaning, cooking, and taking care of the details of life. It was late afternoon and I’d finally gotten all the necessary things done, homeschooling was done for the day, and the kids had gone outside to play.
I made myself a cup of coffee and went upstairs and sat down in my comfy chair, anxious to have a few minutes to get some blogging done and take a little breather. The house was quiet and there was nothing pressing to do… and I was ready to soak it up for a bit.
And then I heard a child come back inside and excitedly call up to me, “Mom, would you come outside with us?”
Truthfully, I heaved a little sigh. Here I was going to relish a few minutes of quiet and tackle some things on my list.
Immediately, I knew that I had a choice: I could do what I wanted to do and regret it. Or, I could get up out of my comfy chair and choose to bless my kids — something I wouldn’t regret.
My kids won’t always be begging me to come play with them. Someday, they will be busy with their own lives. Someday, they will be all grown up and well past the play outside days. Someday, the house will be quiet and I will miss these days.
So, I got up out of the comfy chair, went outside, and threw myself wholeheartedly into my kids’ world. They were thrilled. I was blessed by their excitement for life.
And you know what? When bedtime came, not only did I not have any regrets that I was too busy to take time to play, but everything that needed to get done on my list had gotten done.
Some day, all too soon, these years will be over. Today, let’s embrace the muddy feet, the messy rooms, and the seemingly mundane.
I love this list of 31 Things to Do When You’re Having a Bad Day.
You might also enjoy my post on 10 Things to Do If You Wake Up Feeling Like a Grouch.
As I mentioned yesterday, we’re almost done with unpacking! Yay! Now to just tear down this massive stack of boxes in the garage!
I was highly motivated to get everything unpacked this weekend as I knew that we had a lot of different things coming up in the next few weeks and if we weren’t mostly unpacked, it would likely result in major chaos. And if you know me personally, you know I’m not a person who does chaos well. 🙂
We’re still re-arranging and organizing, but it feels good to have places for most things and most things in their places. And we’re truly loving this house! Since we signed the lease on it without seeing it in person, we weren’t sure exactly what we’d think of it, but we love it just as much as our house in Kansas, if not more. And that’s saying a LOT since we really loved that house!
Most of you know that one of my greatest concerns with moving was my kids. It was hard for them to leave Kansas and their friends and extended family there. But God has answered our prayers for friends and community here far beyond what we could have hoped or dreamed.
The family we’re renting our house from had told the neighbors ahead of time that a family with three young children was moving in, so most all of the neighbors knew we were moving here and were so excited to meet us! That’s Southern hospitality for you!
The kids have welcomed my kids with open arms and within a few days, they act like they’ve known each other for years. It’s a beautiful thing to watch them jump right into this new community.
We continue to be utterly blown away by the warmth and graciousness of everyone in TN! It’s amazing!
Our washer stopped working right before we moved and was irreparable (well, the two repair guys we had come out both said they could possibly fix it, but it would cost us more to fix than it would to replace — and they weren’t even sure they could fix it.) So we bought a new washer here, but it won’t come in until tomorrow.
Some friends here found out about this and insisted we come over to use their washer/dryer. Not only that, but they invited us to stay for volleyball and dinner.
Then yesterday, a neighbor boy whom I hadn’t met yet, saw our moving boxes in our garage, rang out doorbell, and asked if he could break the boxes down for us. I didn’t quite know what to say at these random acts of kindness. He said, “I know you’re new here and I just wanted to help.”
This kind of graciousness is everywhere here. And it is humbling, inspiring, and oh such a blessing to newcomers like us!
We enjoyed our first home-cooked meal in our new kitchen on Sunday. It was fitting that it was one of our favorites: pancakes, eggs, and bacon — yum!
We’re still learning our way around here, but I’m incredibly excited by all the grocery store options and can’t wait to start learning the ropes of how to shop at Harris Teeter, Whole Foods, and more!
Yesterday, I was blessed to get to spend the afternoon with my dear friend, Angie Smith. And then they invited our family to come to a Cinco de Mayo party with some of their good friends.
It was so fun — and we laughed until we cried while the kids tried to break open this very persnickety pinata. Oh the memories!
Sporting my new Under Armour kicks that Jesse bought for me on sale (yes, he’s a keeper — he knows how to work the bargains!) All the color in this photo perfectly expresses how my heart feels today: grateful, happy, and excited about life. Today: Don’t let life happen to you; go happen to life!
It’s easy to get sucked into the idea that fun and entertainment must cost money. However, there are dozens of ways you can have fun without spending anything at all!
Here are just a few of the many ideas we had… feel free to share yours in the comments below.
1. Write an encouraging email, text, or letter.
2. Invite a friend over for coffee.
3. Bake something for your family or for a friend.
4. Join a small group or Bible study.
5. Pray for someone and then text them to let them know you prayed for them.
6. Find a funny joke/photo & share it with a friend.
7. Invite friends or neighbors to your house instead of going out.
8. Make a meal for a friend.
9. Take a nap.
10. Read a book you already own.
11. Count your blessings.
12. Do devotions and pray over your day.
13. Give yourself a manicure or pedicure at home.
14. Go for a walk and pick some wildflowers.
15. Go for a bike ride.
16. Make a bucket list.
17. Try a new hairstyle (on yourself or others).
18. Shop your closet & put together a new outfit.
19. Go to bed earlier.
20. Take a hot bath or shower.
21. Do an at-home facial.
22. Bring flowers from your garden into your home (or to a neighbor’s house).
23. Play a board or card game.
24. Watch comedy videos on YouTube.
25. Have a family movie night with fun snacks.
26. Find free art, music, or educational classes online
27. Have a bonfire and make s’mores or hobo pies.
28. Listen to a podcast or audiobook.
29. Make a variety of playlists and share them with friends.
30. Camp in your backyard (or your basement).
31. Watch the sunset and/or star gaze.
33. Go to the park.
34. Go to the beach.
35. Go to the library.
36. Go to church (either Sunday services or weeknight activities).
37. Go to a friend’s house.
38. Visit a museum on a free admission day.
39. Go for a hike at a local nature center.
40. Volunteer at a local mission or shelter.
41. Decorate your driveway or neighborhood sidewalks with chalk.
42. Organize a drawer or closet.
43. Weed your garden.
44. Have a garage sale (after you declutter!)
45. Deep clean one room in your home.
46. Implement an “eat from the pantry/freezer challenge” and come up with creative recipes.
47. Catch up on the laundry!
48. Wash and vacuum your vehicles.
49. Defrost your freezer.
50. Wash your windows and let the sun in.
Have a snowman-building contest.
Try to build an igloo.
Go sledding.
Go snowshoeing or skiing.
Make a hot chocolate buffet at home (with a variety of toppings).
Drive around looking at the lights.
Write letters (or emails) to friends and family.
Visit the library.
Host a board game night at your house.
Learn to knit (there are lots of online tutorials for this!)
Go for a hike, a walk, or a bike ride.
Walk a dog with friends or neighbors.
Visit a local park with friends.
Head to the beach (or a friend’s pool).
Sit around a campfire in your backyard.
Invite friends over to run in the sprinklers.
Have a picnic in your front yard with neighbors.
Pick flowers from your garden or the side of the road.
Watch a sunset or sunrise.
Read a good book while laying in a hammock or on the lawn.
Give yourself an at-home pedicure.
There are an endless number of fun things you can do with friends all throughout the year.
Consider going for a group walk or having a picnic in the park during spring. Summer would be a great time to head to the beach together. In the fall, you could set up a weekly game night (board/card games) or Bible study. And winter is a great time for a white elephant gift exchange or an at-home pedicure party.
Much of this just comes down to your attitude! Even if you are an extrovert, you can still find plenty of ways to have fun when you’re home alone.
Catch up on your favorite books, TV shows, movies, or podcasts (you can even clean, fold laundry, or exercise while listening to podcasts.) Call a friend. Write letters to special people in your life or just journal for a while. Cook or bake a special meal. Take an extra long shower or bath. Take a nap!
What about you?
Tiffany emailed in the following tip:
There is a company called Rare Patient Voice that does surveys and interviews for people with rare diseases about their medical care, quality, and services. This is not just for people who have the condition, but also for their caregivers. Each time you fill out a questionnaire or survey, you get a bit of financial compensation.
When you first sign up, you get a $10 Amazon gift card. Then anyone who signs up and puts your name as a referral, you both get another $10 gift card.
I just received $20 because I signed up and then my husband signed up under me. I haven’t taken any surveys yet, so I’m not sure how much compensation you get for each one, but this is really legitimate in what/how much I’ve gotten so far.
The diseases that qualify as “rare” are:
- Bleeding Disorders
- Multiple Sclerosis (MS)
- Cystic Fibrosis
- Sickle Cell Disease
- Huntington’s Disease
- Pulmonary Arterial Hypertension (PAH)
- Waldenstrom’s Macroglobulinemia (WM)
- Lupus
- Gaucher
- Duchenne Muscular Dystrophy
- Hepatitis C
- Crohn’s Disease (I’m guessing UC counts as well)
If you think that either you or the person you care for has something that qualifies as rare, you can apply here, and then explain why you think you qualify. (If you do decide to sign up, I’d love it if you put Tiffany Thomas as your referral so I can get credit for it!) -Tiffany
ServingJoyfully.com shows you how to make homemade graham crackers.
Do you have a fun and frugal DIY idea to share? I’d love to hear about it! Read the submission guidelines and submit it here.
I got onto the elevator with my 4-year-old’s hand clasped in mine. He was so excited to go on a little outing with Mom. I was happy to be spending some one-on-one time with him, too. And it was shaping up to be a wonderful day.
Then I glanced at the two other gals in the elevator with us.
They were so put together. Cute clothes, beautiful hair, flawless makeup… the exact opposite of me.
I’d been running short on time that morning and my attire consisted of a sweatshirt, yoga pants, tennis shoes, a messy ponytail, and no makeup.
Yep, I was the epitome of style. Ahem.
As I began comparing my frumpy looks with these two adorable women, my earlier joy started slipping away.
Why couldn’t I get my act together this morning? Why am I so often resorting to ponytails and sweatshirts? What is my problem? Why can’t I be pretty, cute, and put together like so many other women?
Then I looked down again at the little boy holding my hand. He could care less what Mom is wearing; all he cares is that Mom loves him and is investing in him.
Yes, I want to take a little time to look presentable each day, but spending time on my outward appearance at the expense of moments with my kids is always a choice I will regret.
So you know what I did? I held my head up high, held on tight to my son’s hand, and wore that sweatshirt with pride. I may not ever be nominated for Fashionista of the Year Award, but my kids don’t seem to mind. 🙂
It was a busy and pretty exhausting week, but we’re all moved in and only have a few boxes left to unpack — YAY!
I’m excited to get back to a more normal routine this week! I pretty much bombed my goals list, but I’m going to be okay with that since it was moving week and all. 🙂
Last Week’s Goals:
Marriage/Mothering/Homemaking Goals
1.Move!
2. Write a love note to Jesse.
3. Read Captured on the High Seas aloud to the kids (while in the car driving to TN).
Personal Goals
4. Work on memorizing & reviewing Romans 1:1-29.
5. Exercise four times.6. Finish reading Secrets of Dynamic Communication, The Busy Homeschool Mom’s Guide to Daylight, and Chasing Francis.
This Week’s Goals:
Marriage/Mothering/Homemaking Goals
1.
2. Get our closet organized.
3. Organize the pantry.
4. Write a love note to Jesse.
5. Finish reading Captured on the High Seas aloud to the kids.
Personal Goals
6. Work on memorizing & reviewing Romans 1:1-29.
7. Exercise four times.
8. Finish reading Secrets of Dynamic Communication, The Busy Homeschool Mom’s Guide to Daylight, and Chasing Francis.
Business Goals
9. Finish tweaks/edits on a new project we’re working on.
10. Answer all the emails in my to answer file (I dumped all non-urgent emails into a file while we were moving!)
How did you do on last week’s goals? What are your goals for this week? I’d love to have you share your progress on last week’s goals and your goals for this coming week in the comments. Of, if you’ve blogged about it, leave your direct link below. Let’s cheer each other on to live purposeful and productive lives! You can download a free customizable weekly goal-planning sheet here.
Guest post from Carissa of Pretty/Hungry
I am a stay-at-home mom, and I am so thankful for the blessing of being home with my daughter all day long! It has allowed me to witness all her “milestones,” given me time to gently mold her and correct unwelcome behavior patterns, and provided me with millions of memories I get to keep forever.
But when I get together with other moms, the conversation inevitably turns to the nitty gritty day-to-day stuff. It seems all moms want to hear what other moms do with their kiddos hour after hour, day after day. And it makes sense to be curious… because those hours do stretch on sometimes! I often wonder how other families pass the time (ahem… I mean “make the most of it.”)
There are a lot of mommies out there who do an enviable job of entertaining and educating their children throughout the day… all without any help from the TV and on a razor-thin budget to boot. But to be honest, some of them intimidate me!
I’m just not someone who is going to painstakingly dye rice 10 different colors for my children to use for “sensory play.” The suggestion alone stresses me out.
Rainbow Rice hiding in every crevice of my kitchen from now to eternity? No thank you. Stay away from this household, Rainbow Rice!
(By the way, I have the utmost admiration for those of you who do make Rainbow Rice. And those of you who pull out drop cloths and aprons and let your kids cover themselves in paint. And those of you who create baking soda volcanoes, and math-themed Easter egg hunts, and hand-sewn doll clothing . I aspire toward such greatness.)
But if I’m honest with myself, that “really cool” stuff happens maybe twice a month around our house. And it’s not because I’m lazy (okay, maybe it’s a little bit because of that) but mostly it’s because I know my limits. If I stretch myself too thin with projects/goals/scheduled activities, my fuse shortens and my family suffers the consequences. And that’s no good.
So where does that leave us non-crafty moms? Those of us who want to stimulate our children’s minds, invite them to learn and grow, & include them in fun and educational activities around the house, but would rather not resort to Rainbow Rice?
Well, for me and mine, it means doing a lot of activities that are not only fun and educational, but also practical for our family!
If I need to work in the garden, my daughter comes with me to help. If I need to sort coupons and go grocery shopping, it’s an opportunity to teach my little one about budgeting and making wise purchases. If I need to get dinner on the table, I include in her in preparation.
These activities may not be Pinterest-worthy, but they are such valuable learning opportunities nonetheless! And even more importantly, they provide a backdrop for you to spend quality time with your little ones.
Pulling weeds is the perfect activity to promote conversation! I always like asking questions like, “What is one thing you did today that you are proud of?” and “What is one thing you would do differently today if you had a do-over?” These are the conversations that become the building-blocks for your children’s entire life. They are invaluable!
I am a wife, a stay-at-home-mom, and a food blogger! I love the Lord, my family, reading, writing, and cooking. We stick to a strict budget because we are saving up to buy our next home, so I have to get very creative in the kitchen at times. I blog at Pretty/Hungry about food, wellness, and family life!
