Yesterday evening she asked me, “Could we jump on the trampoline together tomorrow?”
I’m not much of a trampoline person — especially now that I’ve had kids and my bladder isn’t what it once was! — but it was a simple request and I told her yes, of course we could.
I put it on my daily list for today so that I wouldn’t forget and I’m so glad I did because it was one of the first things she talked about when she got up this morning.
“Mom! You remember what we’re going to do this afternoon, right?”
I showed her that it was right there on my list for the day and she just beamed.
We went about the morning: chores, projects, tasks, to-do’s. We have a busy week this week with filming for my book launch tomorrow, mid-year meetings with my executive team on Thursday, an event in San Diego on Saturday, and then gearing up for our fall schedule to begin next Monday.
So I had extra tasks today and was feeling just a little bit frazzled over everything that needed to get done. I had a chiropractic appointment and some errands to run this afternoon and was looking forward to a few hours of quiet by myself.
But as I got ready to go, she asked me if she could go with me. I could tell that the extra time with Mom would be really good for her — especially since I knew the rest of this week was going to be full.
So, I set aside my plans for some quiet time, and told her that if was was ready to leave in 15 minutes, she was welcome to come.
She excitedly hopped in the car with me and her enthusiasm never waned the entire afternoon. She was talkative, all smiles, and just kept mentioning how much she loved being with me.
When we got home, we worked together on pulling weeds from the gardens, cleaning out the car and garage, and finishing up some projects around the house. We laughed and joked as we worked and we got a lot done in a short amount of time.
I had some business projects I really needed to finish so I was just about ready to open up my laptop and get started on them, when she came up to me with a big grin on her face and said, “Are you ready??”
I had to think for a second to figure out what she was referring to and then I remembered my promise to jump on the trampoline with her. Honestly, at that point, I was just ready for some peace and quiet and to charge through the rest of my business and blogging to-do list for the day.
But I knew that she’d been looking forward to our trampoline time all day long, so I mustered up some excitement and enthusiasm and went out to jump on the trampoline.
We ended up having such a fun time. We laughed. We chased each other around. We played Crack the Egg. We tried to out-do each other in various jumps. And I got in a really great workout for the day.
After my 33-year-old body had gotten thoroughly worn out, I told her I was going to head inside. She said, “Thanks so much for playing with me!”
And then I went inside and saw this devastating news on Facebook.
And my heart went into my throat.
I have known Paul and Tiffany through blogging for many years. They’ve shared many deals with me that I’ve posted here, Tiffany has guest-posted here, and Paul has helped us with compiling the Walmart deals for a long time.
I’ve not ever met them in real-life, but I feel like I know them through their blogs and through our email interactions.
And there are no words to describe just how much I hurt for them.
We never, ever know what tomorrow holds. Don’t wait until it’s too late to say those “I love you’s”, to take time to play with your kids, to ask forgiveness, to be a “yes” mom, to jump on the trampoline, to set aside the to-do lists to be present… live each day as though there might not be a tomorrow.
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