Someone recently wrote in and asked, “How do you stay fit?”
While I’ve talked about fitness in previous posts, it’s been awhile and I thought it would be great to revisit this topic again and share where I’m at in my current season of life!
As I thought about how I’m staying fit right now, three strategies came to mind:
1. I make it a priority.
I was blessed to be raised by parents who made fitness a big priority. My dad was a runner in high school and college (he was on the track team) and still runs 3 miles every single day — even at age 64! My mom is also really into fitness and encouraged us to participate with her in various workout programs (or just long walks or bike rides) many times while we were growing up.
As I watched both of my parents make physical fitness a priority — even in the middle of their busy lives — I knew that it was possible to find time for fitness, if you made it a priority.
As with anything you want to do in life, you can’t just say you want to do it, you have to commit to it and make it a priority. For me, that means getting in exercise as early as possible in the day and making my health and well-being a priority.
When I’m fit, I have more energy, I’m happier, I’m healthier, I enjoy my life more. I’m a better wife, mom, business owner. In fact, I wear all of my hats better when fitness is a priority. And it’s worth it!
2. I do what works in this season of life.
It looks different in different seasons. Right now, here’s what it looks like…
- Drinking a gallon of lemon water every day. If you drink enough water and stay hydrated, it will help you stay healthier, sleep better, improve your skin, make you feel more energetic, take away aches and pains from dehydration, and help regulate your weight and your digestion.
- I eat a big salad every day, as well as other raw fruits and veggies. I try to eat good protein at every single meal and eat mostly whole grains. I feel better when I eat whole grains, and I know that it’s better for me.
- Limit desserts and sweets. I don’t completely limit them. I did for a long period of time, but now I just make sure it’s in moderation.
- Get enough sleep. Makes me healthier, happier, energetic, more productive. Helps my stress, skin, makes anxiety go down, and it regulates my weight and metabolism.
- Make sure I’m not taking on too much. Stress drastically affects your health. Having too much on your plate can cause your whole body to be unhealthy. This is something I’ve made a huge priority in the last two years.
- And yes, exercise. I’ve learned not to push myself too hard. My personality is the type that I can easily be too driven and I can end up pushing myself too hard. Right now I have three very active kids who need a lot from me, I have a successful blog/business and work full-time + oversee my team and the longterm strategy of the blog, and I also invest a lot of my time into my local community. Because of this, I want to make sure exercise is fueling me, not draining me. So I try not to push myself too hard. I’m doing 10 push-ups per day and a run about 1-2 miles every day. And I try to stay active throughout the day, as well.
3. I don’t compare myself to others.
I encourage you to not compare yourself to someone else. It’s so easy to look at someone else and wish you had her body type or her metabolism.
I’m blessed to have great genes from my parents. They are healthy and slim and active — even at age 64! And they seem to have passed on their great metabolisms and love of healthful foods and fitness to all of their kids.
But I know that not everyone has the same body structure or health or metabolism that I do. At the same time, I know that I need more sleep and more down time than a lot of other people do. Sometimes I can get frustrated that I’m not as able to go-go-go as someone else is, but then I remember that I have many strengths that other people probably wish they had.
Instead of wishing we were someone else, I want to embrace exactly who I am and all of the strengths and weaknesses, abilities and inabilities, body type and structure I’ve been given. And I want to make the best choices I can with the time, energy, and ability that I have.