Achieving My Audacious Goal: My First Novel

by Crystal on January 31, 2012

Guest post by MK Jorgenson, author of Regardless

I have a distinct memory from when I was five. There are no images or places or events attached to it, but the memory is strong: it was the moment I decided that I would write a book someday.

The planted seed of that dream remained buried during my growing-up years, building deep roots as I wrote essays and stories for classes and poetry in my spare time. My dream lay dormant during the busy days of college, the blur of getting married, moving to a new state, setting up a home, and welcoming our first precious baby.

Then it crept up on me, a tiny bud pushing through the soil of my new life, whispering that it was now or never: “The baby naps so well, you have an encouraging husband, you have a plot…”

It’s been nearly a year in the making, but it’s finished! Though the process was sweet and life-changing, there were some very practical steps that made this possible:

  • I created stakes. November is National Novel Writing Month, in which aspiring authors can sign up, post their daily word count, and “win” a certificate if they write 50,000 words during November. The website has forums where writers can connect locally and by genre. Going after a prize (even one as silly as a print-yourself certificate) helped spur me on to “win”.
  • I set daily goals. Crystal talks often about breaking big goals into smaller ones, which I found crucial during NaNoWriMo. To reach the 50,000 word count goal, I had to write 1,667 words a day—more than that to avoid writing on Sundays.  Knowing I had to hit that number within my writing time helped a lot.
  • I made the time. Not everybody’s in the place to write a novel; I was fortunate to have a newborn who napped very well and at predictable times, so I knew when I could work. Now, she is fourteen months old but still takes one big nap, so I can still write every day.
  • I made myself accountable. Every day when I finished writing, I posted my word count on Facebook. People were very supportive, which only spurred me on all the more.
  • I gave myself grace. 50,000 words does not a novel make; after the NaNoWriMo challenge was over, there was still more work to be done. Then there was editing, formatting, and artwork. Plus there was a grad student husband who needed encouraging, a baby girl who needed loving, and a house that needed cleaning. If I had kept up my NaNo pace, I would have published six months ago, but I am truly loving the balance I’ve struck between my “work” (which is my passion) and my “job” as mother and wife (which is my greater passion).

So a seedling dream becomes a reality, and now that I’m pre-writing my next novel, it might become an entire orchard.

MK Jorgenson is a first-time author, wife, mother, and Jesus follower. When she’s not frantically typing during naptime, she loves walks to the park and reading story after story with her daughter. Her debut novel, Regardless (inspired by events in the book of Acts), is available on Kindle, Nook, and in paperback through Amazon. She can also be found blogging at mkjorgenson.blogspot.com.

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Video blog: January’s hymn of the month

by Crystal on January 31, 2012

We set a goal as a family to learn one hymn every month in 2012 during our evening family Bible Time. The children are loving this and have learned almost all of the words to two verses of this month’s hymn. It’s so fun to hear them singing together.

We tried to capture them singing the hymn on video a few times last night and found that it’s near impossible to get a good take of three children singing at once. But just for fun, I thought I’d share one of our takes!

Silas also learned Jesus Loves Me this month and Kathrynne wanted to take a video of him singing it with her.

I feel so blessed and unworthy to get to nurture, love, and mother these three precious children. I truly want to soak up every moment.

If you’re joining in The Money Saving Mom®’s Budget Book Club, you’ll want to hop on over to Amy’s post on creating big goals and breaking them down into bite-sized pieces.

Free ebook: Gluten-Free Cooking for Beginners

by Crystal on January 31, 2012

Sheri Graham is offering her Gluten-Free Cooking for Beginners ebook for free to my readers through February 4, 2012.

Request a free Quaker Oatmeal Squares sample.

Click on the “Like” button on the Pilot & Flying J Travel Center Facebook Page and you’ll be able to print a coupon for a free 16-oz. hot beverage at any Pilot & Flying J Travel Center. This offer is good through March 31, 2012.

Thanks, Blessings Unlimited!

Download a free digital issue of The Old Schoolhouse magazine.

Thanks, Motherhood on a Dime!

Click on the “Like” button on the Family Circle Facebook Page to download a free 15 Slow Cooker Favorites ebook.

Thanks, Freebies 4 Mom!

Graduating Debt-Free!

by Crystal on January 31, 2012

Guest post by Anne Jisca

My husband and I met in college and got married after our 2nd year. He went on with his studies, pursuing a Master’s degree part-time while working.

Now, after six years of marriage, he will be completing his degree this spring. Throughout those years, we have learned to make do with little, and to keep our student loans to a minimum.

This past summer, we set ourselves a high goal of doing whatever it takes to pay off our student loans this year, so that he can graduate debt-free. It seemed unrealistic on my husband’s salary (I’m a stay-at-home-mom), but we sat down and determined how much we would need to pay into the loan every month to have it paid off, and found ways to make that happen:

  • We contacted the loan agency and applied for interest relief, for a period of six months. That means six months of saving the interest to apply to the principle!
  • We’ve lowered our grocery budget. We were already eating inexpensively, but we lowered it even more. What that means is mostly eating less meat and replacing it with beans and legumes that I soak and cook myself.
  • We’re purging our house of unused items and selling them through a yard sale and on the internet.
  • We had bake sales, and I continue to sell baked goods from home.
  • We minimized our spending money, and find cheap or free ways to make memories as a family.
  • Any extra money we get, however small the amount, goes towards our student loan.

While not every way of making and saving money has panned out, we are still making progress that we would not have made otherwise. It’s not always easy or fun to limit ourselves in this way, but the anticipation to be debt-free (aside from mortgage) by graduation is worth every effort!

Anne Jisca is a wife, and a Mom to two little boys. She loves to cook and bake, seeking to feed her family healthy (but yummy!) foods. She shares her recipes at Anne Jisca’s Healthy Pursuits.

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INC. magazine for $3.50 per year!

by Crystal on January 31, 2012

Today only, you can get INC magazine for $3.50 per year when you use coupon code MSMOM at checkout. You can get up to three years at this price.

INC. magazine is one of my very favorite magazines and one of the few magazines I read cover to cover. If you have a small business or are considering setting up a small business, I’d highly recommend a subscription.

(Note: The link in this post is my referral link. Read my disclosure policy here.)