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My Word for 2018 (+ one pretty shocking thing I’m committing to!)

Two years ago, I chose the word REST for my Word of the Year. And it changed my life.

I’d tried to jump on the whole “Word of the Year” bandwagon before, but it just never stuck. I would begin the year with these big ambitions and then I’d fizzle out.

OR, I wouldn’t really define what that word meant and how it was going to shape my goals and my focus for the year. So it was just a good idea that never went anywhere.

I thought maybe I was just not cut out for the whole Word of the Year thing. I thought maybe it didn’t work for my personality or something.

That was, until I declared 2016 my Year of Rest. And well, the rest is history.

I’m not the same person I was when I started 2016. I’m so much calmer. So much less stressed. So much healthier. So much happier. So much more content. And get this, I’m so much more productive! Because I’ve learned to invest my life in a few things and do those things really well. Instead of chasing a hundred things and just feeling constantly overwhelmed and exhausted.

So how was I finally successful at this whole Word of the Year thing? Well, I believe it was because of three reasons:

1. I drew a line in the sand.

Instead of thinking that I just needed to get more organized or sleep less or find a way to use my time more wisely, I realized that I needed to draw a line in the sand and make some major changes in my life because I didn’t love my life at all and didn’t want to live life so exhausted and overwhelmed and lacking joy… just trying to make it through.

2. I defined what it would mean.

In addition to drawing a line in the sand, I sat down and defined what it would mean to claim Rest as my word for the year. It meant that I would say no to pretty much everything and everyone except the absolute necessity until I found some breathing room in my life. I wanted to actually discover what it would feel like to not live life at breakneck speed, to not constantly be going-going-going, and to not be so overwhelmed by my to do list.

3. I declared my intentions publicly.

I got brave and posted publicly that I was committing to have a Year of Rest in 2016. Putting it out there for all the world really gave me the courage and accountability to follow through with me.

At the time, I didn’t even realize that my worth was coming from what I did or that productivity had become a sort of “drug” for me. When I committed to a Year of Rest, it gave me the space I needed to untether myself from being chained to a worth based on productivity, to pry my hands off of my tight grip of trying to control so many things in my life, and to step way back from my usual highly-driven, task-oriented focus.

And it was there, that a whole new world opened up for me! It was colorful and full of life and joy and breathing room. And I’ve never gone back.

Inspired by my 2016 Year of Rest success, I chose the word Yes for 2017. This wasn’t about saying Yes to adding more to my plate, it was about saying “Yes” to more fun and spontaneity and the few things that really matter most and are my priorities in this season of life.

I loved spending some time today reviewing this past year and seeing all of the fruit of my commitment to saying Yes. In 2017, I said yes to:

among many other things!

As I’ve been contemplating what my word for 2018 would be, it just sort of came to me at the beginning of November. But I let it simmer and marinate for a few weeks before I even mentioned it to Jesse. Because I wanted to make sure it was the right word.

I still felt a peace about it after a few weeks, so I told Jesse. He loved it.

So I got brave and told and few close friends. They loved it, too.

And it was settled.

So without further ado, let me introduce you to my Word of the Year for 2018… SLOW.

Yes, s-l-o-w.

2018 is my Year of Slow.

Anyone who knows me well knows that this word isn’t a word that you’d think of to describe me. I’m someone who is fast — my brain thinks quickly, I make decisions quickly, I respond quickly, I’m a fast reader, a fast eater, a fast walker.

As an INTJ, Enneagram 8, my brain doesn’t slow down much. 🙂 I don’t like to sit still, I get bored very easily, and my definition of a “quiet day” is very different than what most people would consider a “quiet day”.

So, S-L-O-W is not my usual pace.

Let me be clear: I’m not trying to change my personality this year, but I want to challenge myself to slow down in certain key areas. Because I think this would be healthy and good and, quite possibly, life-changing, for me.

Here are the specific ways I am planning to walk out more slow living:

1. I’m going to focus on being slower to speak and slower to react.

You guys, here’s the blatant truth: I can steam roll over people if I think that my idea is better than theirs (which I usually do) or if I think that my way is the right way (which I pretty much always do!) or if I feel like they are just wasting my time by talking about something when I’ve already made up my mind (which is a LOT of the time!).

My personality is such that I am able to assess situations really quickly and know what path I want to take. I’m typically a very quick decision-maker. And once I know the path I want to take, I don’t stand around worrying that I might be making the wrong decision or waiting and hyper-analyzing and researching to make sure I feel like the decision is right. I pretty much make up my mind quickly and then I JUMP.

Which can be a great trait… in many situations. But it’s not so great if you’re married to me or in a close relationship with me and I’ve made up my mind and you are not in agreement with me or haven’t had enough time to really make up your mind. (I’m sure you can envision how that would play out!)

I get impatient easily and I have a habit of cutting people off or shutting people down — without even realizing it. And it’s not good.

So one of my aims in 2018 is to s-l-o-w down when it comes to conversations with others. I want to really take time to listen if someone disagrees, to wait to move forward until I’m on the same page with Jesse, and to not cut people off or get impatient with them in conversation (I do this especially when it comes to my kids, Jesse, and a few people on my team).

2. I am going to have one SLOW day each week.

Beginning in January, I’m taking Wednesday off from work every week to have an intentional SLOW day — an unplugged, offline day where I’ll move at a slower pace.

That’s the day I have Discipleship Group in the morning and I’m planning to go on a date with Jesse after Discipleship Group. It will be my day to invest in my local community, hang out with Jesse, read, and enjoy a quieter and slower pace.

I’ve planned our routine and my weekly commitments accordingly and I’m really curious to see if I can actually consistently do this! Will you help keep me accountable??

3. I’m going to stop reading self-help books this year. (Shocking!!)

I know. Did you just fall out of your chair??

Considering that this is the genre I almost always gravitate toward and considering how much I love to read, this is pretty shocking. I came up with the idea a month or so ago and it took me two weeks before I would even say it out loud because it felt so scary.

But when I told a close friend, she said, “If it scares you, you might consider whether that means it would be a really good thing?”

And I knew she was right. Jesse agreed.

So here’s the reason I’m not going to read any self-help books in 2018: In the spirit of my Year of Slow, I want to stop reading books that are making me feel like I’m not doing enough — that I need to do more and add more to my plate.

There’s nothing wrong with self-help books and I think they can be fantastic — especially when you’re in seasons where you need the encouragement and motivation. But there’s also a point, when you’ve read so many books about time management that you just need to stop reading them and get up and apply what you already know.

So instead of reading self-help books, I want to read books that are going to help me exhale — spiritually, mentally, physically, and emotionally. (Such as story-driven books, inspirational books, fiction books, biographies, etc.)

So there’s that! I can’t wait to see what my Year of Slow holds for me, what I’m going to learn this year, and how this word is going to change my life!

Did you choose a word for 2018? If so, I’d love to hear what you chose and why you chose it!

Speaking of time management books and productivity, I have been working on a surprise project the past 2 months and finally get to tell you about it! I’m launching a live group coaching in January called 4 Weeks to a More Productive Life where I’ll be walking you through some life-changing principles to help you live a much more productive and fulfilled life.

It’s designed for you if you…

  • Wish you could change your life, but don’t where to start
  • Hope to find a way to become more productive and get more done, but feel overwhelmed by the thought of taking yet another productivity course or reading yet another book on time management.
  • Want to make 2018 the year that you actually stop wishing and hoping and planning and start DOING.

Doors will open for a few days only beginning January 1, 2018. If you are interested, you’ll want to sign up to be on the waitlist because you’ll be the first to know when it’s available and you’ll also get access to my brand-new printable called 6 Ways to Start your New Year Well.

Go here to sign up — I can’t wait to have you join me for the live coaching!

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182 Comments

  • Amy M. says:

    I love this! The word for the year idea really hadn’t appealed to me until I saw how you lived them out and then it “clicked.” Last year I had a phrase: “walk in the Spirit.”

    For 2018 it will be “abide.” I’ve been stepping into new territory professionally/ministry-wise and it’s been terrifying and yet amazing at the same time since I can see how God has been preparing me for this for so long. 2018 brings even more “new” so I know abiding in Him will be key to staying at peace and thriving in the midst of all the changes and new challenges!

  • Melody says:

    A teacher of mine once said: “Boredom is a lack of attention. If you’re bored, pay attention.”

    I’ve found this to be true, during a “boring” time when things have slowed or been delayed, or especially in listening to someone else speak.

  • Carol says:

    Slow is a great word! I look forward to seeing how this impacts your year! (I’m also looking forward to seeing what books you read!)

    My word for 2018 is “fearless”. For too long, I’ve let fear hold me back and weigh me down with anxiety. I’m working on letting go and surrendering everything to God. I actually have a stack of Christian living (self-help) books I’d like to dive into next year. Some include ones you’ve recommended this past year, so thanks!

  • Amy Smith says:

    These words are a challenge and a balm to my soul. Lately I’ve noticed how impatient and irritated I’ve been, almost instantaneously. It’s become a way of life to the point that I’m seeing the same habits in my young children (the youngest not quite 2 yet!). How sad, that the reactions and responses of my baby girl, have caused me to realize how I must look and act towards them?
    God is gracious and merciful to show me my sin through the mirror of my children. But I can’t keep using that as a crutch. So my word for the year is “change”. Intentional, purposeful God-honoring change.
    Slow change, for sure. Thank you for the the word idea. I’m borrowing yours and adding it to mine.😘

  • Paula says:

    I chose the word, wellness for 2018. I am going to work on physical, mental, and spiritual wellness.

  • Hmmm, you’re making me think a lot about that word too. I am very similar to you (ENTJ!) and I have a challenge sitting still. Thank you for giving me a lot to think about!

  • Brooke says:

    Love the word slow! I’ve been thinking a lot about my word, and I think I’ve decided on present, but I’m still making up my mind for sure. I totally would never have placed you as an Enneagram 8, but after you described how you react to certain situations, it makes more sense! My husband is an 8, and he can have a tendency to just move right on past other people if they get in his way, and I’ve never seen those tendencies toward you online! I’ve also heard that Enneagram 8 women are not super common, so it’s just cool to see that’s your number! I always look forward to your posts at the end of the year, I love reading your book lists and goals!

    • I’m grateful that God has been working on teaching me about compassion and how to move toward it in relationships in the last few years… if you followed my blog back in the early days (10-12 years ago!), you would definitely know I was an Enneagram 8. 😉

  • Holly says:

    Thanks so much for always sharing your word of the year. It has really encouraged me to do the same for the past couple of years and I’ve benefited greatly from this practice! My word for 2018 is “nourish”. I want to spend my time, money, and energy mostly on things that will nourish me. I realize I need to nourish my body, my skin & nails, my relationships, my spiritual life, etc. I’ve taken some time to figure out what this means to me personally and I’m really looking forward to seeing how it all plays out this year!

  • Stacey says:

    I have grown fond of selecting a word…for 2018 my word is laughter! And she laughs without fear of the future. Proverbs 31:25

  • Milissa says:

    I usually try to pick a theme for the year…and then never live by it. I’ve been contemplating what I’d like 2018 to look like. It’s tough because my husband lost his job almost three months ago, so my part-time gig as a preschool teaching assistant has, by necessity, become much more time-consuming because I sub as often as I can to make sure our savings can stay untouched until absolutely necessary. So, for 2018, my theme will be PEACE. And not just any peace but that which only comes from complete surrender to God and His plan. I’m still working on how this will play out. My type A, driven nature is going to struggle, but I know PEACE is what I, my family, and our lives need. I also know we will all blossom and flourish with it. And I know my heart will be so much more Christ-filled and content! Really getting my blog off the ground and getting my novel published (or self-publish it!) are big goals, so embracing peace will bring clarity to the “how” of all that, I’m certain😊

  • Michelle Slomp says:

    My word for 2017 was Shalom-the peace in the chaos. My year was chaos. My husband ended up being hospitilized for his severe depression and I became Chair of Council of our church all at the same time. This year has been a rollercoaster and I don”t like rollercoasters.

    My word (s) for 2018 are Be Still. I am a go go go person and I try to manage it all. Unfortunately things fall apart time and time again. I need to be still and remember God has it so I don’t have to. I am hoping that this is the year I take a step back and learn to let go of what I don’t need and embrace a quieter prayerful posture.

  • Carolyn M. says:

    After much prayer and thought my word for 2018 is HOME!

  • Charlotte says:

    My word for 2017 was Awesome…and it was!

    2018 is Reduce.

    My husband and I are trying to downsize (last kiddo graduating in 2019) our belongings and ultimately our homesize. My body needs some serious Reducing. I, too, constantly read or watch self-help/inspirational books, videos and courses. I love them but the past several months it has scattered my thinking instead of focussing it.

  • Jo says:

    I’m still waiting and pondering my word. Nothing feels right yet. I’ve just realized that 2 of my sons have dealt with some pretty heavy issues alone. I’m so disappointed in myself that they didn’t feel they could come to me for help; that they felt they had to handle it alone. It’s very humbling to realize that the doors of communication were shut. I’m hopeful that it’s not too late to change things for us all.

    • It’s definitely not too late. Lean in, love them, pray for them, get into their world, be interested in what they are interested in, learn what their love language is and focus on loving them in a way that makes them feel loved. There is hope! And it’s so beautiful how much you love your kids. What a gift!

  • Sabrina says:

    Slow. I didn’t expect that. I can certainly understand that.

    The last 2 years my Word has been joy. The year before that it was hope, but this year my Word is going to be Serve.

    My dad passed away 4 years ago and his death kicked me hard. I’ve been an hermit ever since. I’m naturally an Introvert and serving is difficult for me.

  • Jen says:

    My 2018 year is TRANSFORM…going to work this week on breaking it down into catergories (health, finance, relationships for example).

  • Joni Hoadley says:

    My theme for 2018 is centering around reduction. Reducing how much I work, reducing how much sugar and processed foods I eat, reducing my stress, etc. However, I would love to find a more powerful, uplifting word that is in line with this. Love SLOW! Might have to use that next year.

  • Melissa says:

    I have been thinking a lot about what I want 2018 to look and be like and the first and only word that keeps coming to me is Breathe. I often find myself with the feeling I can’t breathe. I find that some situations make me feel that way also. I am a person who will give 100% of myself to any given situation only to be left feel without air. Two of my four children are dealing with major stresses in their life they are 10 and 14 sometimes those stresses are very heavy for me and I once again feel that way. So for me Breath means allowing myself to relax I need to relax and focus on the things that bring me true Happiness. I need to also make myself a priority I do everything for everyone else then there is no oxygen (energy) left for myself. I need to surround myself with people, things, situations, and experiences that put oxygen (life) into me rather than take it from me, I want to feel alive.

    **sorry you all had to read me working through what breath means to me. I’m glad I did because I was able to truly define it in the last sentence. I also came to this conclusion if my breath is being taking away I want the situation or experience to be something I will remember for years to come I want it to be something to hold on to and not something I wish to push away and forget**

    This year I want to BREATH all of life’s fresh air!

  • Frankie says:

    Slow… This is definitely something that I need to work on. One day of “slow” is a great idea and one that I would like to implement. I started choosing a focus word two years ago and it has totally changed how I look at the New Year. Two years ago my word was “commit,” something that I admit is still a struggle, but thanks to a new perspective is an idea that I now take seriously. Last year was “seek.” Seek God first, then seek to learn more. This year my focus is “reflection.” Reflecting on how far I have come, where I am, and where this path will lead me. I pray that your year full of blessings!

  • Jeanette says:

    I took a sabbatical from reading self-help books for about three months this year after a brave friend told me that I was “no better reading for reading them!” You know what? I think she was right! I was much happier not reading self-help books and spent a lot more time in gratitude & contentment. I have gravitated back to self help books & I think I need to go on another sabbatical soon Good for you taking a day off a week. Love your intentional living…it is inspiring!

  • Maggie says:

    I am sitting in between “Read” and “Calm” right now 🙂

  • Abigail says:

    I laughed out loud when I read your word because we have very similar personalities and I picked a similar word: Still. I need to take time to be still and present with God, myself, my husband and my kids. I want to make sure I’m taking the time to be still to know what is most important. Can’t wait to follow your journey! The idea of self-help books is one I’m going to think on. I don’t know if I’m that brave, but I might say I can only read one for every 4 others I read.

  • Rhonda says:

    My word for 2018 is Joy. I’m going to smile more, take opportunities to play with my children rather than be too busy, have fun, do things happily rather than begrudgingly, laugh more, step out of my comfort zone, worry less and just enJOY life and all I’m blessed with. 2017 was rest and I learnt to prioritise what was important, drop my own high expectations of what I needed to achieve and slow down and relax.

  • LOVE IT!!

    Slow sounds awesome! In this crazy fast paced world we are living in, we all need to slow down and relearn to enjoy life, to think before we reply, to add quiet times to our days and allow margins to breathe.

    My theme for this year is Beyond Blessed and I am so pumped about it! <3

  • Jenny Rich says:

    I too also love self help books. My word for 2017 was Grow and wow I did I ever. I started a side business selling on ebay and volenteering at local ministry that iam constantly sharing my faith. Alot of hard this happened in 2017 some major health issues with my daughter and several Financial struggles leaving us wondering if we need to sell our home and do a major downsize. I have been praying for my word and last month the Lord put the word faithful on my heart. I started thinking about ll the ways I need to faithful to the Lord and started listing my to do list until the Lord gently spoke to my heart that this year was going to be the year He would show me His faithfulness. I am starting 2018 anticipating all the wonderful ways to see God work. 🙂

  • Amy says:

    Slow is my word for this coming year too! That’s crazy! I guess we’re probably at the same place in our lives, huh? My husband comes home from his year long deployment in 2018 and I want to take everything slow…soak it all in!

  • Laura R says:

    That’s a great word! Mine will be Commit. I’ve chosen the grand scheme ideals I will be committing to for the year and each month I have something related to or supporting those grand schemes that I am committing to so I can further reach my goals.

    I’m also incorporating it in my Miracle Morning affirmations and visualizations, so it will continue to be front and center in my life.

  • Crystal Young says:

    My word is “heart” and it has three meanings:
    *Physical – I am ready to get into physical shape and have a strong heart to live a long life.
    *Spiritual – I am ready to be a woman after God’s own heart, to keep my heart pure.
    *Emotional – I ready to fall in love again.

  • Cara says:

    2017 my word was “Nourish” and I think I did a pretty good job of adding more greens, restorative Yoga, prayer and meditation, while trying to nourish my family as well. Of course I could do more, but on the whole I made some good progress. 2018’s word is “Mindfulness”. I want to really be mindful about what I do, how I spend my time, and how I treat myself and others.

  • Julie V. says:

    My word for 2018 is Treasure. As in to hold dear, cherish, value greatly. I plan to treasure myself by eating well, exercising, and starting the Miracle Morning. I will treasure my family by listening more, spending quality time with them, having more homecooked family dinners and unplugging more. I will treasure my home by keeping it clean, organized, and welcoming to family and guests.

  • Crystal M says:

    Hi Crystal!
    I just listened to your Insta story and I’m so motivated! We moved from Wichita to Memphis two years ago and I’ve been struggling ever since. I’ve been thinking about what I really want besides serving my family and serving others. I’m excited to consider what my word, or phrase, or thought for this year can be. Thank you so much for putting yourself out there! You have really encouraged me! Crystal M 😉

  • I love it! I hope this will be a wonderful year for you.

    I’ve chosen the word “simplicity”. I want to simplify and scale back on my commitments and our household possessions.

  • Jeremy Ginn says:

    What an amazing post. It is very timely as I just read Jon Gordon’s book about the very same topic. I’ve been pondering and praying and seeking the right word. I think it came to me today.

    My wife and I have 4 kids and we’ve just been in a very busy season. She miscarried early in 2017 and there has been a lot of pain and questions surrounding that. My wife’s grandma passed away just two weeks ago.

    For the past two weeks we’ve talked alot about finding joy. The topic keeps popping up into conversations and Joy is going to be my word for 2018. Now I’m going to define what that looks like. Thanks for the inspiration.

  • Becky M. says:

    I’m focusing on the word “content” this year!
    I know that as I let go of foolishly set expectations, I will find greater contentment in all aspects of life.
    I have greater peace and joy, and will be much easier to live with (for my loved ones and myself)!

  • Nicole says:

    I love this idea. I read your word for last year & instantly knew I needed to try this as well. My word for 2017 was Joy. I needed to intentionally look for the joy in my days, no matter how big or small that was. So, moving into 2018, I immediately knew that my word needed to be “contentment.” I struggle with being content, but feel that God is speaking g to me to really work on this area of my life. My favorite bible verse is Philippians 4:13, but I just recently read Philippians 4:12, “I know what it is to be I need & I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any & every situation. Whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want. I can do all things through Christ who gives me strength.”

  • I love your plan to read story-driven books, inspirational books and biographies! Stories are so powerful in their “stickiness”. I think of how Jesus taught in parables. I always enter a story emotionally, which makes it stick!

  • Barbara says:

    Thank you so much for sharing this, Crystal! Before I read your post, I had no idea what I was going to focus on. But as soon as I saw your word SLOW, I realized that although I’m the complete opposite of you (slow as molasses, contemplative, take forever to do most things), and likewise I can’t change my brain wiring, there is still a lot I CAN do. So, my 2018 word is going to be SPEED! Last year, I turned my 2017 word (PASSION) into an acronym, so I’ll do the same thing with SPEED: **Sit less, move more // Pray without ceasing // Eat for energy // Empathy for every person without hesitation // Do more for others.** Thanks again for the inspiration! May God bless you in your year of slow. 🙂

  • JJ says:

    Today you are you! That is truer than true! There is no one alive who is you-er than you! Dr. Seuss

    You continually encourage and motivate me! Thank you for being you and keeping it real!

    My word will be “best” for 2018. Do the next best thing. And I am starting now…by going to sleep! 🙂

  • Honestly, I don’t understand having a word for the year. I have no idea what it is for or how to come up with one.

    I’m excited for your year of slow though. Right on about the self-help books. Sometimes, you just need the ability to do your own thing the way that works best for you.

  • Jennifer says:

    My word for 2018 is LISTEN. Just like you mentioned, Crystal, I tend to charge right through situations and jump into action. Similar to your desire to slow down, I want to listen more. Listen to God, listen to my friends and co-workers instead of jumping in and making the conversation all about me.

  • Gina says:

    That’s a great goal! And the no self-help books for a whole year IS shocking!! Self-help book are my favorite. I don’t think I could go a whole year w/o reading one. I could maaaaaybe do 3-6 months. lol That’s what I go to when I come across new situations in my life and with 5 kids…there’s always something. And I just desperately need the encouragement I get from those types of books. I’m just now sitting down tonight to think about what I want for the upcoming year and I’m definitely leaning toward something like “slow.” I’m thinking maybe, “content” (as in satisfied). I struggle so much with feeling like things just aren’t the way I want them.

    • I’ve found that self-help books can be so fantastic… in certain seasons. But they can also contribute to making me feel like I’m not doing enough/need to be doing more/am not measuring up. So I’m curious to see what happens when I am not reading them for an extended period. I might not like it at all… but I think it might be freeing and insightful. We’ll see!

  • Michele says:

    Romans 12:2. My word for 2018 is Transform. Physically and spiritually. Physically, I need to lose a significant amount of weight and just get healthier. Spiritually, I need to be intentional about putting God first and spending time with him and significantly less time on my phone, Facebook, etc. I’m excited about this new year and what God is going to do in my life. I pray that by this time next year, I will not be the same person I am right now.

  • My word of the year is going to be tradition. I feel our family life could benefit from a focus on creating meaningful traditions for the days, weeks, months and special occasions – things that will help create memories and give us things to look forward to. I’ve made a list of things to try and am super excited about it!

  • Crystal, I was guessing you would do another year of rest. Slow is very inspiring to me.

    One of my clients has Wednesdays off, and I have considered doing the same. We’ll see. Next week I will be planning out my weekly schedule for 2018.

    I have not chosen my word yet. 2016 and 2017 were both years of change and growth for our family.

    In 2018, I want to focus on my relationships with God and my husband.

  • Carrie says:

    My word for 2018 is HOPE. So many things in my life have been so very difficult for the past dozen or so years…getting increasingly so over the past two. My marriage, two unsaved adult children, financially struggling on one income while I homeschool our youngest three children. As I basically spiritually parent alone, I often feel like my motto is “faint, yet pursuing” from the story of Gideon. So this year I just want to bask in the hope I have in Christ. Looking into Jesus… knowing that He is my sure hope…even if things this side of heaven never improve.

  • Dalyn Peitz says:

    My 2016 word was live. I wanted to live life as full as my heart could take and take the time to really get to know my kids. 2017 word was unstoppable, which may seem odd but I have been unhappy with verbal abuse making me feel insignificant from my husband. This time I’m not going back. I am spreading my wings and finding the true me (instead of the one I was supposed to be). This year I have had trouble deciding between fly and heal. Im standing up straighter and confident in my words. Decisions are coming easier and accepting help is something I just have to do right now. I am moving forward and that is what is important.

  • Vicky says:

    My word is ‘surrender’. I’m tired of constantly trying to control everything around me which only leads to disappointment. Not my will but His be done in 2018. Amen!🙌🏻 ✝️🙏🏻

  • Elizabeth says:

    Obedience. I am a terrible control freak and need to learn to obey God’s plan for me. I realized that choosing which things I am comfortable with in God’s plan for me is not true obedience….its just more of doing what I want, when I want, where I want. I think this is going to be terribly hard for me, but will make me a better person. So this includes saying yes to as much volunteering possibilities as possible, attending all holy days of obligation(I find ways to avoid them…), and being a better wife/mother by doing things that may not be easy for me. Wish me luck!

  • Kris says:

    I about fell out when I realized our word. It is mine too! Came to me 2 days ago in my God-time with journaling. For reals! For many of the same reasons you listed and a few others. Slow. Email me if you’d like to dialogue more.

  • Meredith says:

    What a great word! Not sure what mine is yet. While 2017 wasn’t a bad year, it always felt like I was playing catch up….want to be more ahead this year. I find I’m a happier person when I’m planned in advance. Everyone in my family benefits!
    I love how there were so many comments to this post! I love reading them and I’m looking forward to more of your personal posts again!

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