5 Principles We Follow That Simplify Our Home

5 Principles We Follow That Simplify Our Home

My husband and I have been married for over 12 years and in those years, I’ve learned and grown a lot.

The first seven years of our marriage were especially hard. We survived the last semester of undergrad, infertility, law school, then three babies in five years, multiple job changes, job loss, starting multiple businesses, moving multiple times, financial struggles, marriage struggles, postpartum depression… and more.

I struggled to figure out how to do this wife thing, this mom thing, this home business thing, and this homemaking thing. There were many rocky seasons and rough patches.

There were many days when I never made it out of my PJs (well, truth be told, I still have a few days like that here and there!), I always felt incredibly behind, I rarely ever got enough sleep, and the house was often near disaster.

In the past five years, I’ve made huge strides in my organizational skills, my personal self-discipline, and in setting up more structure and routine for our days. There are 5 principles we follow that have helped us to find our groove, simplify our lives, and have better order in our days:

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#1: Touch It Once

As I talked about yesterday, instead of moving papers and piles and clutter and stuff around from place to place, I’m a firm believer in touching things once.

If you pick it up, use it and put it away. If you get it out, put it away. If it’s trash, throw it out. If it’s a dirty plate, don’t just set it in the sink, rinse it out and put it in the dishwasher.

By dealing with dishes and trash and junk mail and papers immediately, you save yourself so much time in the long run. {If you missed my post on this principle yesterday, read it here.}

Now if I could just implement a Touch It Once system for my laundry, we’d be all set! The good news? I’ve stayed almost completely caught up on laundry for a WEEK. That’s massively huge for me — especially because we went on vacation and came back during that week!

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#2: Everyone Pitch In

If you are a member of our family, you are required to be an asset to our family. We want to raise our kids to be responsible adults, so that means we are working on training them to pitch in and carry their own weight as part of our family.

One way we do this is by having Non-Paid Chores and Daily Lists. Our kids know that this is what is expected of them and that there are consequences when they don’t do what is expected of them.

By all pitching in and working together, it makes our home run much more smoothly and it means that no one person is having to tackle the majority of the work involved in keeping our home clean and orderly. “Many hands make light work!”

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#3: Pick Up Twice A Day

This simple principle has made a world of difference in our home. I’m not exactly sure when it started, but I don’t plan to ever discontinue it!

Basically, in a nut shell, we aim to have our whole house picked up and company ready twice a day — this means all the main rooms all picked up, the kitchen cleaned up, the laundry started, the bathrooms clean, etc.

We usually have a household clean-up time right after breakfast when everyone does their morning chores, I work on the kitchen and laundry and oversee/inspect the kids’ work. Then, after dinner, we all work together to clean up again — this time with Jesse either overseeing the kids’ chores or helping with cleaning up the kitchen.

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#4: Stick With a Budget

From the beginning of our marriage, we’ve lived on a strict, written budget. This has simplified our lives, made decision-making so much easier, helped us in our communication as a couple, given us greater financial traction than we could have ever dreamed, and allowed us to be able to fulfill our heart passions to be givers.

If you’ve never had a written budget before, I can’t recommend it highly enough. Some people think that it would make life miserable. On the contrary, we’ve found that it simplifies life so much — we don’t have to worry that spending money in one area is going to hurt our ability to spend in another area because we’ve already pre-determined and designated money for all of our budget categories. In addition, it cuts down significantly on impulse purchases!


#5: Shop Less

The less you own, the less there is to clean, dust, and pick up. We don’t do much shopping — except mostly for groceries and some online shopping for necessities like clothes and household items.

Before heading out to shop, I encourage you to really ask yourself why you’re shopping. Do you have the money to buy the item? Can you make do with what you already have? Is there a better use for that money?

It’s long been said, “If you’re not content where you are, there’s a good chance you’re not going to be content where you think you want to be.” So instead of focusing on what we don’t have, for years we’ve made it our practice to focus on what we do have and to bloom right where we’re planted.

It’s amazing how this goes such a long way in curbing the “I wants” and the need to run out and buy something just to to buy something. Plus, the more we stay out of the stores, the less we are tempted to think we need to buy things we didn’t know we needed or didn’t know even existed!

5 Principles We Follow That Simplify Our Home

What principles help YOU simplify YOUR home? I’d love to hear in the comments!

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Weekend Giveaway: $50 Lilla Rose Gift Certificate (5 Winners)


Have you heard of Lilla Rose? Lilla Rose is the maker of the popular and unique Flexi Clip. The Flexi allows you to achieve some beautiful hairstyles in a very short amount of time.


This weekend only, Jessica, a consultant with Lilla Rose, is offering a giveaway for 5 $50 Lilla Rose gift certificates to use on anything on her site.

Jessica is a homeschooling mama to 4 little ones and she emailed and said: “Lilla Rose has been an amazing blessing to me and my family – not just financially but giving ME something to focus on and regroup when I needed some downtime.”


There are 7 different sizes of the Flexi — one to fit every type of hair! These clips are flexible, durable, and stylish and they come with a one-year warranty!  Head over to this website for some videos on styling your hair with Flexi Clips.


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In case you missed my post earlier this week about this great offer from Schoola, I just wanted to bring it to your attention again because many of my readers are getting completely FREE kid’s clothes with the $15 credit + free shipping.

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Weekend Giveaway: $25 Lamplight Scripture Prints Gift Certificate (10 Winners)

Lamplight Scripture Prints is an Etsy store dedicated to making fresh and beautiful designs of timeless truth. They offer Scripture prints for every room in your home.

This store is run by two moms who desire to make God’s Word tangible and present in homes and hearts.


They sent me some of their prints and I love them. I also love that 10% of all purchases go toward local and global ministry. Proceeds have helped to support ministries fighting to free those being trafficked, to fund adoptions, and more.


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Brigette’s $48 Grocery Shopping Trip and Weekly Menu Plan for 6

We had a wonderful vacation with extended family in Maine this past week, and I really enjoyed the break from my normal menu planning and grocery shopping! Since there weren’t any great deals on meat or fruit this week, I decided to rely on what we already have in our freezer.  I like to completely rotate through my freezer stash every 4-6 months anyway, so this seemed like a good opportunity to work on that!



1 20-oz pkg Yellow Squash – $2.19

1 20-oz pkg Zucchini – $1.99

3 containers assorted Baby Lettuce – $5.07, plus receive $0.25 back from Checkout 51 and $0.25 back from Snap by Groupon – $4.57 after rebates

1 head Cauliflower – $1.99

1 bag Kale – $1.99

1 bag Baby Brussel Sprouts – $1.29, plus receive $0.25 back from Snap by Groupon – $1.04 after rebate

1 pkg Flat Leaf Spinach – $1.79

2 16-oz bags Baby Carrots – $1.38

2 16-oz containers Egg Whites – $3.98

1 bag Mini Sweet Peppers – $2.29

1 container Grape Tomatoes – $0.99

2 Avocados – $1.98

2 Cucumbers – $0.78

Total after Rebates: $26.96


Harris Teeter

2 jars Skippy Peanut Butter – $4.00, used 2 $0.55/1 printable (doubled) – $1.80/2 after coupons

2 boxes Kelloggs Mini Frosted Wheats (B1G1) – $3.39, used 2 $0.50/1 printable (doubled), plus receive $0.30 back from Ibotta – $1.09/2 after coupons and rebate

1 32-oz carton SO Delicious Coconut Milk – $1.50, used $0.55/1 printable (doubled), plus receive $1.00 back from Ibotta – $0.60 MM after coupon and rebate

1 box Blue Bunny Ice Cream Novelty – $3.49, used $0.75/1 printable (doubled) – $1.99 after coupon

5 8-oz pkgs Sargento Cheese (slices and shreds) – $10.00 (must buy 5 to get this price) - used 2 $0.55/1 printable (doubled), plus 2 $0.50/1 printable – $5.80/5 after coupons

5 8-oz pkgs Cabot Chunk Cheese – $10.00 (must buy 5 to get this price) - used 2 $1/2 printable – $8.00/5 after coupons

2 16-oz pkgs Land O’Frost Premium Lunchmeat – $7.98, used 2 $0.75/1 printable (doubled) – $4.98/2 after coupons

2 pkgs Mission Soft Taco Tortillas – $3.98, used 2 $0.55/1 printable (doubled) – $1.78/2 after coupons

1 gallon Milk – $2.99, plus receive $0.30 back from Ibotta – $2.69 after rebate

4 pkgs assorted Frozen Vegetables – $4.00

used $10/50 purchase – Publix Coupon received in mail

Total after Coupons and Rebates – $21.53

Weekly Total: $48.49

Weekly Menu Plan


Smoothies (using strawberries, grapes, bananas, and blackberries from our freezer), Toast x 2

Oatmeal with Fruit (from the freezer) x 2

Cereal x 2

Bread Machine Cinnamon Rolls (birthday breakfast)

Veggie Omelettes (for me)


Cheese Quesadillas, Fresh Veggies with Dip x 2

Peanut Butter and Honey Sandwiches, Yogurt, Fresh Veggies with Dip x 2

Build Your Own Tossed Salad, Boiled Eggs, Sliced Cheese

Leftovers x 2


Mexican Lasagna, Tossed Salad

Chicken Broccoli Rice Casserole, Easy Whole Wheat Bread

Hamburgers on the Grill, Homemade French Fries, Grilled Vegetables, Cottage Cheese Pie (birthday meal for my husband)

Sub Sandwiches, Fresh Veggie Plate, Homemade Strawberry Applesauce

Cheesy Hashbrown Potatoes with Ham, Steamed Vegetables, Easy Whole Wheat Bread

Leftovers x 2


Fresh Veggies, Sliced Cheese, Our Favorite Chocolate Chip Cookies, Popcorn, Protein Smoothies (for me)

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