How to Overcome Burnout and Get Back on a Routine (Part 3)
5) Recognize That You Can’t Do It All
No woman, no matter how put together she might seem, is superwoman. Every woman has her flaws, shortcomings, and struggles.
Stop comparing yourself to others.
The sooner you stop comparing yourself to others, the sooner you’ll start to find more peace and contentment in life.
You can spend all of your life trying to measure up to someone else. You can fritter away hours of time wishing you had her hair or her figure or her energy or her gifts. But you are not her, you are you.
You have unique gifts, talents, and abilities. You can improve upon what God has given you, you can wisely steward what He has given you, but you cannot change who He has created you to be.
So instead of living life wishing you were someone else, embrace your own uniqueness. Don’t feel guilty if you can’t get up when she gets up, or decorate your home like she decorates hers, or fit into the size of jeans she does, or juggle all the activities and responsibilities she does.
Your life and goals are going to look different from others — and that is completely okay. In fact, if everyone were a carbon copy of each other, wouldn’t life be dull and colorless?
Do the best you can with the energy, gifts, talents, and resources you have in the season of life you are in. And then be free from guilt!
Pick a few priorities and let the other stuff go.
And by a bunch, I mean a bunch of other stuff.
I don’t cook gourmet meals, I don’t host elaborate parties, and I’m the farthest thing from a fashionista.
I don’t sew. I don’t really garden. I don’t head up any organizations or run any committees.
My children are only involved in one extracurricular sport/activity right now (they are all taking ice-skating lessons) and we stay home all day at least two or three days most weeks.
So while I might do a good job of reading aloud to my children most weeks, I might accomplish a number of my weekly goals, I might read quite a few books, and I might update this blog frequently, the only reason I have time to do those things is because I’ve chosen to say “no” to a lot of other things that I’ve deemed aren’t priorities in my life right now.
Give yourself grace.
You are never going to be where you want to be. There will always be something undone or left to do. And as soon as you complete one project, there’s another project (or five) that needs to be completed.
Don’t beat yourself up that you’re not as far as you’d like to be. Instead, give yourself grace, and focus on the progress you have made and are making.
Rather than becoming discouraged that you have 12 things left on your to-do list to do and it’s 10:30 p.m., be encouraged that you accomplished three of the things you set out to do today.
When you have a day when it seems like nothing gets done and you just go around and around in circles, remind yourself that tomorrow is a new day.
And remember: Life is meant to be enjoyed and savored not run through at breakneck speed. Take time to stop and smell the roses, even if it means fewer things get crossed off the to-do list!
…to be continued tomorrow
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