The most exciting thing that has ever happened to me as a blogger

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by Crystal on January 9, 2012

I’ve been hinting around recently that I had some big news to share with you all. Truthfully, this is probably the most exciting thing that has ever happened to me as a blogger and I’ve been bursting at the seams to share this with you all, but I had to wait until a lot of different things were in place before I could make it public. Today, all the behind-the-scenes details are in place and I can finally share my big news with you!

But first, I need to give you some background story…

When Simon & Schuster contacted me out of the blue in late 2010 to offer me a book deal, I was really hesitant about taking it. The thought of being a published author was exciting, but I was scared. Scared of the work involved and the short time frame they were asking for it to be done in. Scared of the strain it might put on my health, my marriage, and our family.

But the biggest reason I was uncomfortable about the whole thing was the money issue. Simon & Schuster offered me a nice first-time author advance and I just didn’t want it. Sure, I could come up with some savings goals we could put it toward, but it just didn’t feel right–especially because we already have more than plenty.

I was washing dishes at the kitchen sink and contemplating and wrestling over what to do one day when it was as if God spoke in a still, small voice to me and said, “Give it all away, Crystal. Take the book deal, but give all your proceeds away.”

Without a doubt, I knew that that’s what I was supposed to do. And not only that, but I knew instinctively that I wanted to give the proceeds to Compassion International, an organization that exists as a Christian child advocacy ministry to some of the poorest of the poor.

For the first time since I’d gotten the book offer, I actually felt really stoked about the whole thing. This project was no longer about me. It was no longer just about writing a book. It was something much bigger–helping to meet the basic needs of those who were impoverished.

And so I accepted the offer and spent the first half of 2011 writing and editing my book, The Money Saving Mom®’s Budget. It was a lot of work, there were days when I wanted to throw in the towel, and I often had to ask the Lord to give me strength and wisdom beyond what I humanly possessed in order to do everything I needed to do to pull off this project.

But through it all, I felt such a sense of peace and purpose. I was excited to think that this book wasn’t just going to impact thousands of lives in America, it would hopefully also directly impact many lives through the money it raised for Compassion. That was such an exhilarating thought and it kept me going even when I was tired and drained.

After I finished the final draft and the manuscript went to the printers, we turned our attention to exploring what God was specifically calling us to do with the proceeds from the book. After discussions with Compassion, we really felt that we were to give the money to the Child Survival Program Fund.

On the phone, they off-handedly remarked that we could actually fund an entire Child Survival Program in one area, if that was something we were interested in. I asked them for more information and, after much thought and prayer, my husband and I knew that this was what we wanted to invest all of the proceeds from The Money Saving Mom®’s Budget into.

We chose a Child Survival Program in the Dominican Republic that was already established and needed a donor. This Child Survival Program offers life-saving health and medical care for over 80 at-risk expectant moms and young moms and over 80 at-risk babies and young children in the Dominican Republic.

It provides healthy deliveries in hospitals or clinics, immunizations, growth monitoring and development for the babies, and education for the mothers on how to care for and feed their children. In addition, one of the facets of the program is equipping mothers with income-generating skills so they can provide for their babies and young children.

Thank you, thank you, thank you for your support of my book project. Thank you for buying the book and telling others about it.

I’m beyond thrilled to let you all know that–thanks to your amazing support–the money we’ve received from The Money Saving Mom®’s Budget so far was enough to completely fund an entire year of the Child Survival Program in the Dominican Republic. How amazing is it to think that your support of the book is directly helping to impact the lives of over 160 at-risk women and children?

Pictured above are a few of the women in “our” Dominican Republic Child Survival Program. Women and children who have proper nutrition, medical care, and hope, thanks to you.

Our family is committed to supporting “our” Child Survival Program in the DR for as long as it is in existence and we are looking forward to taking a trip to visit there in the not-too-distant future. We’ll take pictures and share with you all about the lives you are impacting! {And I have a feeling we’ll come home forever impacted ourselves, too.}

Again, from the bottom of my heart, thank you. I’m humbled, honored, and overcome with gratitude to be a part of all of this. And it never would have happened if it weren’t for you all. You all mean more to me than I can express. Just thank you.

Postscript: I’ve been planning to share this post today for a number of weeks. Little did I know that one of the women I appreciate most in all the world would also be writing a similar post today. You must go read Ann Voskamp’s post Because Saying Thank You Can Change The World.

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Penny T. January 9, 2012 at 6:10 pm

So inspiring… the world needs many more people like you, Crystal. I won a trip to the Dominican Republic once for my husband and I. I had no idea what to expect and no time to do any research… I wish I had. It’s a very poor country and I wish I had brought clothes, etc. to give away to the residents. The program you chose sounds wonderful! I love your blog and I love you, as a person, because you have such a wonderful heart and morals. What a wonderful journey you have started…

kim January 9, 2012 at 6:11 pm

Ok, I’m actually crying. I’m so happy that I preordered the book. I feel like I helped. I think I may just have to make a bigger donation to Compassion too.

Allie January 9, 2012 at 6:11 pm

WOW!! What a tremendous honor and blessing this must be in your life. I must admit I cried reading your blog. I have been to the Dominican Republic and worked with women who will benefit from your generosity, and I must admit I always come away more blessed than the time before. May God continue to bless and grow your profits so that his people are reached through your offering. God bless you and your family.

Lynn January 9, 2012 at 6:12 pm

Praise the Lord! Grateful to have played a small part in this by buying your book. So encouraged by your generous heart and willingness to obey the Lord!

Shanna Crum January 9, 2012 at 6:12 pm

That’s awesome! Here’s a verse for ya! Congrats again!

Now all glory to God, who is able, through his mighty power at work within us, to accomplish infinitely more than we might ask or think.

~ Ephesians 3:20, NLT

Crystal January 9, 2012 at 6:24 pm

Amen!

Bobbie-Jo January 9, 2012 at 8:25 pm

Amen x 2. God is (beyond words). What a great testimony :D Ok NOW for sure I’ll buy a book…….or two….:)

Carla January 9, 2012 at 6:12 pm

S.M.I.L.I.N.G.

Julie J January 9, 2012 at 6:13 pm

This is really awesome and inspiring news.

Donna C January 9, 2012 at 6:13 pm

Congratulations! This is wonderful. And to think that the money, which some families could go through in one year for themselves, will supporting 160 people! You are an inspiration of what a true biblical woman looks like. Thank you, Crystal!

Shannon January 9, 2012 at 6:13 pm

Thank you for sharing this, that brought tears to my eyes. I just started couponing and have been thinking about how I may be able to make an impact somewhere to give back. What an amazing thing you have done and continue to do! Thanks

Country Wife January 9, 2012 at 6:13 pm

Amazing work, and congrats.

Melissa January 9, 2012 at 6:13 pm

This accomplishment must be beyond words for you. I long for and strive to do the very same thing, and to know that you’re doing double duty in helping moms like us save money and have a plausable retirement, and also helping needy families around the world…ones you’ll be able to MEET someday…what an incredible feeling. God is using you!!!! I visited the Kibera slum in Kenya in the summer of 2010 and my passion is to help them through our missions organization that works there in a very significant way. I’m still praying about what that is, and knowing that you DID it makes it more real to me that I can DO it too. Thanks for showing us that dreams really do come true.

Rachel January 9, 2012 at 6:14 pm

That is beyone AWESOME!!!

Heather January 9, 2012 at 6:15 pm

Absolutely wonderful! Crystal, the same thing happened to me (on a much smaller scale) when I received my very first paycheck for my blog last month. The thought just popped in my mind to give it away. I decided to give it to my son’s teacher who was going to Peru to help the street children for 2 weeks. I wrote over the entire amount to her $152.73. When she opened it, she began to shake, saying that was exactly the amount of money she was short for the trip. I am normally not a religious person, but I do feel that something greater than me was a work that day. Cheers to you and your good works!

Christin @ Joyful Mothering January 9, 2012 at 6:18 pm

Wow wow!! Did you and Ann Voskamp plan to write these posts on the same day?! Seriously!! Your posts are an answer to prayer and confirmation for my husband and I!!!
Oh my goodness. Like you, we can’t fully share anything yet because we still don’t know everything yet. But. Wow. I am shocked at the timing of these posts.

And SO EXCITED to see what you’re doing!! I still have yet to buy the book but I’ll get it, promise!!! Woot!

Crystal January 9, 2012 at 6:23 pm

No, how crazy is it that we both posted them on the same day? Such a God thing!

Thank you for your kind encouragement–and trusting God to pour out His blessings and grace upon you as you follow His leading in your lives.

Daisha January 9, 2012 at 6:18 pm

That is truly amazing Crystal! I am so excited that the Spirit prompted you to give all your proceeds to this group and that you happily followed that guidance from Heavenly Father. You are one special woman!

The Dominican Republic is near and dear to mine and my husband’s hearts. My husband lived there for 2 years while serving a mission for our church and has a deep and sincere love for those people. We recently took a trip down to the Dominican Republic and were able to visit many of his friends from down there. They are a special, humble and happy people. They really have so little and are so so poor. I am thankful for your gift to them!

Katrina January 9, 2012 at 6:18 pm

I am SO excited for you and thrilled that God is using you so mightily. Isn’t it amazing when God allows us to share in giving? I can wait to share this with my followers who will be so inspired to hear this story from such a “big name” blogger. (LOVED learning from you at Relevant!)

Mandy W. January 9, 2012 at 6:18 pm

AMAZING! Simply amazing!

Lorrel Smith January 9, 2012 at 6:18 pm

Wow! What an amazingly selfless thing to do! Thank you for the reminder that we have enough (and sometimes more than enough) here at home while there are others who struggle to give their children enogh to eat. God bless the good work you’ve done!!

Kristi Graham January 9, 2012 at 6:21 pm

You are an absolute angel here on earth, working with god to make our world better…Thank you for being so wonderful! We need many more people like you in this world and it would be a much better place but thanks to you, perhaps people will take hede and pay it forward as you are. One step at a time…GOD BLESS YOU TEN TIMES FOLD!

Rachael Waller January 9, 2012 at 6:23 pm

You are a true inspiration. Thank you for everything you do. Your blog has been life changing for me, and I’m excited to see how you are continually changing lives.

Kathleen January 9, 2012 at 6:21 pm

Wonderful!

Linda @ Linda's Lunacy January 9, 2012 at 6:22 pm

WOW! AWESOME!!

Siobhan @moneydearest January 9, 2012 at 6:23 pm

You are a much better person than me. :) That is so selfless to give up all of that money to help others you have never met. I’m sure going there and meeting them will make this even more worth it. They are lucky to have someone like you caring about them so much.

Savvy Spending January 9, 2012 at 6:24 pm

So wonderful and inspiring! Good for you for following the voice of God and doing something that most people would NEVER do- give away money you worked so hard to rightfully earn! Your are changing lives- possibly for eternity– by working with Compassion. We love that organization too! :)

amy January 9, 2012 at 6:24 pm

I think you did a fantastic thing! Can I ask why you decided to help the children in another country and not this one? I am not trying to be snarky at all, just truly curious.

Angi @ schneiderpeeps January 9, 2012 at 6:25 pm

I’m in awe of what God can do! What an amazing gift not only to the people of DR but also to your children. For them to see their parents say, ” We have plenty. How can we bless others?” is a life lesson they will always remember.

Shannon January 9, 2012 at 6:27 pm

Crystal, you amaze and inspire me! Lives are being changed, and what a joy that you get to participate in that wonderful journey this way. Much love to you.

Tracy January 9, 2012 at 6:27 pm

This is totally awesome!!! What a blessing!

Ashley January 9, 2012 at 6:28 pm

I am amazed! I don’t know if I could be that selfless. Thank you for being a wonderful example…

Michelle @ Willing Cook January 9, 2012 at 6:29 pm

Amazing Grace abounding!

cat January 9, 2012 at 6:30 pm

Crystal,

You are such an inspiration. Great job.

DonnaJ January 9, 2012 at 6:30 pm

That is awesome! The Lord can really use us if we just submit and let Him! Praising the Lord for your listening ears and blessing the lives of those women & children whom you will probably never meet this side of eternity!

Kim N. January 9, 2012 at 6:33 pm

I think it’s so amazing how God has used you and your blog to minister and bless moms. You are such an inspiration and I’m so happy to have done my little part in purchasing a book! Compassion is such a wonderful organization. Praying that God will continue to bless your efforts!

debi January 9, 2012 at 6:34 pm

You could have decided to take some of that money and personally visit these places but it’s so awesome that you are giving this all to people on the ground, who will likely be able to make a greater impact with it, than your visit. God is awesome! So proud of what He is doing in you and completely supporting you all the way. This is what draws be repeatedly to your blog. Love love it!

Katy January 9, 2012 at 6:35 pm

This is really awesome. I am hoping to be able to win a copy of your book through some of the contests out there since at the end of the week we’re giving up my income so I can be a SAHM. However, if I don’t win a copy, I will be happy to purchase one knowing that the proceeds are going to such a worthy cause. I’ve only recently started following your blog and I’m looking forward to learning a lot from you. Thank you for what you do!

Natalie @ A Turtle's Life for Me January 9, 2012 at 8:10 pm

Katy, if you email me with your address, I will send you a copy of her book! I’m back at work after 9 years of being a SAHM so I know what extra “challenges” that can add to a family (especially in the beginning!). Honestly, send me your address and I’ll be more than happy to send you a copy!!

Kelli Underhill January 9, 2012 at 6:36 pm

I am touched at what you are doing. God bless you, your family and your book.

Melissa January 9, 2012 at 6:36 pm

This has been such an amazing opportunity for you and for you to make the choice to donate all the proceeds to such a worthy charity says so much about what an incredible, giving person you are. Thank you for being such an inspiration to others. You are truly one of a kind.

Keila McKnight January 9, 2012 at 6:36 pm

May God bless you and your family for your selflessness. This story brought tears to my eyes and my heart full of joy for all that you are providing to these beautiful people. You are such an amazing role model and I am so thankful for your blog, your influence and your generous spirit. Thank you for being you! Can’t wait to get a copy of your book, it means that much more now that I have read this post.

Debbie January 9, 2012 at 6:37 pm

What a wonderful gift that you have given for the glory of God! We sponser a child through Compassion International. She was 5 when we met her (through sponsership) and she is now 15. A great organization. May the Lord continue to bless you.

Amber @ SiMoneySavers January 9, 2012 at 6:38 pm

I am in tears! Praise God from whom all blessings flow!

Kathy in Illinois January 9, 2012 at 6:39 pm

What a kind and loving person you are, Crystal. God bless you for your generosity and compassion for those in need.
God bless, Kathy in Illinois

Abby January 9, 2012 at 6:40 pm

That is amazing! This is exactly what God wants his people to do, be the voice for those who cannot speak, the ears for those who do not hear! Its all about giving back and the Lord will provide you with double…stay blessed!!!

Jennifer January 9, 2012 at 6:40 pm

Wow, Crystal! I read Ann’s post earlier today without knowing that you would be writing a similar one. Your post moved me, to tears. (Especially as I had just been researching international adoptions in the DR right before reading your post. God works in amazing ways.)
What a precious gift that you have been able to give those individuals. Thank you!

Amanda January 9, 2012 at 6:40 pm

I am just giddy over this news! I can’t stop smiling! Praise God!

koralyn January 9, 2012 at 6:41 pm

So excited to hear you were led to give it all away! Way to go!

MrsD05 January 9, 2012 at 6:42 pm

Can’t type through the tears. God is good & I love you & Compassion.

Tshanina January 9, 2012 at 6:43 pm

Oh how this brings tears to my eyes. After all, this is what life’s all about!

June January 9, 2012 at 6:44 pm

That is so awesome. God is amazing.

Janell Poulette January 9, 2012 at 6:45 pm

That is very cool! We are missionaries in Mexico City so I have seen similar conditions that the children in the DR face. It’s so wonderful you could help them out so much!

Brooke Soderholm January 9, 2012 at 6:45 pm

What an amazingly generous thing you have done! How exciting to see God’s hand working through women who follow Him. Your decision will bless thousands of lives!

Brenda Douglas January 9, 2012 at 6:45 pm

This is one of the blessings from living life with little or no debt.

It must be so awesome.

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