My husband, a Navy Submariner, is deployed. On submarines, communication is extremely limited — no phone calls, IM’s or Skype sessions. We get email, but we go weeks, even months, without it. But there is one upside – port calls!
In the past, I would fly out to meet him in port, and charge up a storm to get there. This time, I made a goal that if the chance arose, I would be prepared, pay in cash and not touch my savings.
How I Did It
When he left, I:
- Shrank the grocery bill and shopped in my pantry.
- Ate out less, and split meals with friends.
- Grouped errands together to save gas.
- Read books when I was bored instead of shopping.
- Worked longer hours so I could go home for lunch.
With only one person home, these small changes added up fast!
The Goal
Soon I learned he would port in Singapore. I cringed. Singapore is expensive!
I researched tickets, studied exchange rates, read about cheap/free things to do and sought advice on prices for everything.
When ticket prices dropped, I bought them straight from the checking account. Then I bought travel insurance that covered military cancellations. If there is one thing you learn in the Navy, it’s that the schedule is written in the sand, and the tide is coming in fast! I wanted to be covered in the event of a change.
The next big purchase was the hotel. I watched every day, and when prices dropped, I paid in full, saving me $220 per night! I chose carefully – free Internet, breakfast and drinks in the room, none of which is common there. It was also strategically located by the transit system, the cheapest way to travel.
Then it was budget crunch time. Meals, drinks and events are all more expensive in Singapore. And, I wanted to be able to shop for unique items.
For the first time, I successfully used the envelope system! Every time there was money leftover, I put it in a jar. Two days before the trip, I took the jar to the bank and had $250 for traveler’s checks!
A Great Trip Plus…
When it was time to go, I had $3,000 for food, taxis, shopping and sight-seeing for eight days and two people. But we didn’t spend near that much; I returned with an extra $1000!
Some may think this is too extravagant of a trip. But to see my husband, touch his face and talk to him, it’s worth every penny. To do it all with cash, stick to a budget and come home with wonderful memories and leftover money too? That is icing on the cake!
I should be clear – I’m not a mom, unless two big black dogs count. I read MoneySavingMom because the advice is practical, and the stories are motivating. Someday, I hope to be a mom. For now, it’s just me and the dogs, waiting on our sailor to come home safe! ~Kristen McDonald
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Thank you all for your responses. They caught me off guard, and brought tears to MY eyes! I never forget that this life is an adventure, and I’m thankful for it. But sometimes I do forget how different it is, and these comments made my heart swell with pride for my husband, and other military families. It’s an amazing thing to feel appreciated. I can’t wait to be able to show him all these supportive words! Thank you all for the kind thoughts – they have lifted my spirits so much!
And to all the prior and current military members and spouses who responded, thank YOU!
Thank YOU for sharing, Kristen! You have no idea how many lives you’ve touched through this article. And a huge thank you to both of you for your sacrifices on behalf of all of us in America!
Thanks to Kristen for what you and your husband do for our country!!! We couldn’t enjoy the freedom of reading MoneySavingMom without you. Hope you get to go on another adventure to see your husband soon!!
Wow!! I was so moved by your story Kristen. How fabulous that you made your plans and had the motivation and dedication to keep saving for your trip! And it had to feel so much more rewarding to come home afterward with money still in your purse toward your next visit. Thank you for marrying a military man, they need wonderful wives who will travel the ends of the earth to meet them! And thank your husband for his willingness to sacrifice so much of his time to keep all of us safe, we sure do appreciate it!
Congratulations on your wonderful vacation! The ability to form wonderful memories like that will carry you through your long separations. Thank you to both you and your husband for the sacrifices you make.
Kristen – That trip wasn’t extravagant at all! What a wonderful testimony to saving and hard work!!
So glad you were able to see your husband. You should keep looking for opportunities like that BEFORE you become a mom because it’s much harder with little ones.
Thank you to your husband for serving and you for keeping the homefires burning!
This was a really inspirational story! Thank you to you for the sacrifice you are making for the good of our country. And an even bigger THANKS to your husband, for keeping this country safe for me to be able to raise my children! God Bless you both…our military personnel are always in my prayers!
That extra cash will make a nice start to your next trip, and you being able to do this now will help you so much, when your hubby is home safe and you are ready to start your family!!
I’m in awe! and so INSPIRED! You go girl!!!!
Wishing you all the best and praying for a safe and SOON return of your husband!
Thank you for your sacrafices and your husband for his as well. Thank him for protecting and serving our great country! God Bless you both!
Kristin – you rock! Thank you for sharing your inspirational story! And thank you for the sacrifices you and your husband are making to serve our country.
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