I just found your blog and I love it. But I don't know if I am a little too gung-ho about
this. I am not feeling overwhelmed. I have all these folders organized
in my favorites folder and blogs marked in my Google Reader. I have
forums to help me and sites to visit.It just seems like there
are so many places to find deals and some sites have things that others
don't. Some post more frequently than others. I guess I am looking for a way to simplify this so it is not so overwhelming. You said you take about 45 minutes a week and at the rate I am going, it will be hours a week checking blogs and forums. -Jessica
When
you are first learning to shop frugally, it can be a bit overwhelming,
especially if this is a completely new way of thinking. Here are a few of my
recommendations:
1) Start slowly. Don't try to cut your grocery bill in half tomorrow. Instead, set a very reachable goal for your grocery budget for this month.
Once you've achieved that goal, then gradually try to shave off a
little bit more and then a little bit more. Challenge yourself to
improve at a pace that isn't too slow so you see no progress happening,
but also isn't too fast so that it frustrates or burdens you.
When
you are just beginning, pick one or two areas to work on at a time.
Perhaps you have a CVS store nearby, make it a goal that you will spend
the next 2 months learning how to shop there and get all of your
deodorant, shampoo, toothpaste, toothbrushes, and soap/bodywash there
for free (there are a lot more things you can get free there, but we're
going slow, remember?). Start here to learn how to do that.
Once
you've cut out that part of your budget and feel comfortable with
CVS-ing, then move on to something else, say learning Walgreens or
Target, using more coupons at your grocery store, or making two items
from scratch which you would normally buy pre-packaged.
Whatever you pick to work on, enjoy it and don't stress over it. Stretching your budget should be an exciting challenge, not a huge drudgery.
2) Keep it simple.
There is a tendency to want to read every forum and blog out there for
fear we might miss some great deal. The truth is, most of us do not
have that kind of time on our hands. Plus, time is money;
if we waste a lot of time scouring deal websites only to come up with
minimal savings to show for our hours of internet browsing, we really
aren't saving money.
I encourage you to pick a few forums or
blogs that you generally find the best deals for the stores you shop at
and use those as your resource. Set a time once or twice a week in your
schedule to peruse through these and choose which deals you want to do
and add these to your grocery list. (I've found it helpful to copy and paste
deals I find straight into a WORD document and then use that to compile
our grocery list and menu.)
3) Set parameters.
Not only do I recommend that you have a set grocery budget and only
bring cash (and a calculator!) with you to the store to make sure you
follow your budget, I also would highly encourage you to budget your
grocery-list-making time and your bargain-shopping time.
When
you are first starting out, you might allot 1-2 hours per week to
searching for bargains, scouring the ads, clipping and organizing
coupons, and making your list. As you become more adept, I'd shoot for
45 minutes to an hour maximum for grocery shopping strategizing. Have a
set day and a set block of time, if possible. Or split it up into 10-15
minute increments over a few days.
I also recommend that you
limit yourself to one to two bargain-shopping trips per week. Bargain
shopping can be a great way to be a better steward of your family's
income, but it should never consume your life. If you are running
around all over town multiple times per week to get great deals, you
need to step back and examine your priorities.
Like I've said before,
if your home and family is suffering for the sake of a good deal, it's
not a good deal. Set parameters and stick with them! (See this post here for more helpful ideas.)
I'd
love to hear from others on this subject: How do you wisely steward
your time when it comes to frugality? Do you have a method which works
for you to effectively and efficiently save money and take advantage of
great deals without it becoming too time-consuming? Tell us about it!
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Crystal, When are you going to post your monthly financial check up? I’m eagerly waiting for your update.
I have found that jotting in a notebook(recylced from school) as I read the ads automatically writes my grocery list. I list items under each store name, the “deal” – for example, B1G1Free and the price. Then I look through my coupons for those items and put the coupons in an envelope to take to the store. I put the notebook, all of my coupons,my grocery money in cash, and the envelope in a tote bag and when I am out, I stop by the stores with my list. Many times I decide that the trip isn’t worth it or that a lot of the items are not “needed” at this point and I cross them off the list before I even go. I also keep a running Aldi grocery list for everything else. This has helped me when I shop because I can compare prices between the stores and see if I need to use the gas to go for the deal. It is also a handy place to record all the deals I read in the blogs. Good luck!
I’m all about a good deal, but the 2 biggest things are to not go to crazy (ie: drive 10 miles to save $1 or hit 3 different grocery stores to save $5) and to not buy something just because it is a good deal. You have not really saved any money if you have driven all over God’s green earth to get it, if it sits untouched in a closet for the next decade, or if you simply do not need it. I have to constantly remind myself of the latter rule and am not always successful, even though I do know better.
It is amazing how much easier it gets (and how much you save with less effort!) once you get a little stockpile going. I feel far less pressure to get all the deals every week now, because I have a stash of a couple of months of a lot of our essentials. Plus, once you have one area taken care of (like, I have personal care and cleaning products pretty much knocked out for the foreseeable future), you can focus more of your budget on the areas you still need to build.
I would suggest, if you have the extra money, to work some of the bargain shopping out of your system the first like three months on items you can get for free or near free. After you have a stockpile of stuff, just step back and concentrate on a few key stores.
For instance, I went NUTS the first three months I did coupons and stockpiled all kinds of toilet paper, paper towels, toothpaste, deodorant, etc for pennies on the dollar and still managed to stay inside my budget. Now that I HAVE all of those things it makes it easier to say “no” when another deal pops up.
We just got a Walgreens in Alaska a couple of months ago and the RR looked great on paper. But, for me, the logical application of having to SPEND 3.99 out of pocket to get a 3.99 Register Reward just doesn’t work for me on my budget, so I don’t really do Walgreens anymore. I do hit them occasionally to try and see what they have on clearance, but other than that it’s too much money to spend right NOW to get RR to use later.
I focus most of my time on Target, for pet food, cleaning products, any food items they carry (with the exception of some frozen food items) and baby items. The rest of my time (and the majority lately it seems) I focus on my local store Fred Meyer because they plain carry the things I need for day to day cooking…eggs, produce, meat, etc (we don’t have a Super Target), so that makes my choice of where to shop easier.
One other thing you might consider is to just hit one blog that you REALLY like for free sample alerts, hot coupon alerts and stuff like that and one the weekly coupon match-ups for your local stores…try doing them yourself on the items you want. It might just be more cost effective time-wise for you to do that instead of hitting 10 blogs multiple times a week to find good deals.
Just a thought. Hope it helps!
I set aside one evening per week to clip coupons (with my 2 daughters’ help) and write down my deals. Then I do my shopping in one morning with coupons in separate envelopes (by store) and my list on the envelope. It has gotten easier to be efficient as I practice my system.
I certainly spent a lot more time at this in the beginning. I don’t regret it. I learned which stores I like the best for the most savings and got my coupon “groove.” It was worth it. Now I have struck a balance. I don’t stress about not having 100% of the coupons in my purse. I know I am saving a lot for the amount of time put into it, without over kill.
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I have two favorite sites and a couple of favorite blogs, including this one, that I go to on my down time. Often this is while I have coffee and breakfast. As for the making of the list and sorting of coupons, I often do this at the table with my daughter while she eats or colors along side of me, so I’m not missing out on being with her. Making the list doesn’t take much time. I like hotcouponworld.com and afullcup.com beccause they separate by store and then for each region. So if you live in OH and shop at Kroger you can go right to that section and skip everything else!
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I just wrote about this recently. I wholeheartedly endorse using a feedreader and starting small. It’s easy to spend too much time and money in the name of saving a buck.
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What an awesome thing LUVS is doing! I would love to win, I have 2 in diapers, this would be HUGE, even if it only covers 1 of those kids for a year!
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